Anak lelaki / Son

Inginkan anak dan sahabat menasihatkan lebih baik anak lelaki dulu kerana anak lelaki lebih bertanggungjawab menjaga ibu. saya bersetuju dan mula terlintas wajah en suami dan anak-anak yang kacak. hanya tatap muka suami tercinta, memikirkan anak-anak kacak yang pernah saya menjaga dan menghantar mereka ke sekolah.

Alhamdulillah keluarlah Faiq..

faiq bersama anak kacak yang kami rindui

Wanted a  child but a special friend confirmed that a boy first is always better. I agree and start to think of handsone kids and the baby bump father. jusr look at mr hubby's face, think of them because i knew them from they are babies and had babysat them rven sent them to school.

Alhamdulillah Faiq came to join us on earth.

i miss

Faiq dengan nadanya / Faiq with his words

Bila faiq basuh tangan kat sinki dia tengok pokok yang di letak tepi tingkap tu dan memberitahu yang pokok tu tak hidup, tak hidup mama

Dah masa tu kami sibuk tengah makan, papanya tanya macamana nak bagi hidup

Faiq jawab air hujan.

Tadi pun saya cakap dengan Faiq kena simpan mainan, sebab bila pijak sakit tau.

Faiq cakap maaf mama, maaf mama sangat-sangat.

Pagi ni pun dia minta tengok lion dance dalam tab. Saya cakap nanti lepas sekolah

Dia cakap tolong,;tolong, tolong mama.

English version

When Faiq washed his hands, he saw indoor plants at the window and said

Mama, this plant didnt grow, he continue  this not growing, mama

Since we are still eating then papa asked how to make it grow, Faiq.

Then faiq said "Rain" the tree needs rain.

I told Faiq "your blocks hurt me when I step on it
Oh mama I'm so sorry, am really so sorry.

This morning he asked

Mama, I want to see lion dance in the tab,
I said later

He said please please please mama.

bit bout him/ skit tentang faiq

 

 Faiq at 3 years old 1 month.

Sekarang petang-petang, Faiq suka tanya mama what's the plan? Mama akan jawab, pukul 6:00 petang, Faiq mandi, bila papa balik kita dinner, solat/mengaji, lepas tu buat sedikit penulisan/bacaan atau mewarna ok. Lepas tu  tido :)

English version - 

Now in the evening, Faiq likes to ask what's the plan mama? I would answer at 6:00 pm, you shower,  when papa's home we have dinner, pray/ngaji then we do some writing/reading or coloring ok.. Then sleep.

Location : Admiral Marina & Leisure Club.

message to observe / pemerhatian dan doa

English version below

Pada mula Faiq happy nak ke sekolah tetapi bila sampai dia menjadi sebaliknya. Jadi saya bertanya kepada guru,"macam mana ni" dengan tone seperti ingin dapatkan solusi untuk situasi ni.

Dan saya sambung, Faiq senang bangun dan bersiap pagi ni. Dia ambik breakfast lagi. Baru cikgu pandang saya penuh ambil berat. Dengan cepat saya kata ok cikgu ambil beg dia saya bawa dia ke pintu, sebab saya pun tak mahu berbincang dengan cikgu depan dia.

Lepas Faiq masuk dalam, cikgu suruh saya jumpa dengan ketua guru, saya cakap Faiq ok, inshaAllah.

Beberapa saat kemudian, tiga orang guru datang ke kereta saya, guru yang berlainan kelas menyampaikan cerita yang Faiq kena tolak dengan seorang budak dimana ibunya juga sangat mengganggu ketenteraman sekolah, sambung guru-mengadu pada saya. Mereka menyuruh saya berjumpa ketua guru.

Saya rasa tak perlu, yang penting saya akan pesan pada Faiq selalu mendekati guru-guru apabila;.l bermain, sentiasa bersama guru bila pergi mana pun. Yang sebenarnya menyampaikan mesej ni pada guru-guru juga. Ini satu cara menyenangkan guru memerhati Faiq.

Salah satu guru memberitahu lagi yang dia masih risau dengan murid tu, jadi saya cakap saya berdoa dulu, salah seorang guru pun sambut aha doa dulu sambil senyu, saya sambung pula lagipun Faiq yang berumur 3 tahun ni ada guru-guru yang caring dan saya beritahu mereka saya akan pesan pada Faiq yang guru dia akan lindungi dia dan dia juga akan ikut bermain di mana guru berada sahaja supaya senang guru memantau.

Salah seorang juga mengatakan bahawa Faiq pandai dan dah tahu apa yang diajar, dalam hati saya bersyukur pada Pencipta.


English version

Sunday, 20 October 2013

The morning start was smooth but at school Faiq showed reluctancy. I asked the teacher "how" like sharing the matter with her, what she would know the solution. I told may be Faiq's bored of getting in the car because we have been road travelling since he was born yet he still follow this morning.

It was easy to get him dressed this morning I told her. He even had breakfast. Then the teacher looked concerned. I told her it is okay and spontaneously asked her to help me pick Faiq's bag up as I get him to the door by force, because when I prolong talking infront of him, then I do not how that would affect him.

At the door, another teacher welcmed him, I leave him there and went down straight to car, then the teacher told me to talk to his class teacher. I said to her never mind as he is fine, Godwill.

But three of them, the teachers of different classes came at my car window and told stories, that a trouble maker kid disturbs the class, Faiq being pushed by him, the mother complained about the teachers and about her son was not taken care of and infact warned them would make a police report if never change.

They asked me to talk to the headmitress, I said I pray first and will speak to Faiq to play around teachers and be near teacher always because he is a small, the teacher will protect him.

And i looked at his class teacher and asking her supports because Faiq's 3 year old and this is his journey that is he is lucky enough to face it with caring and loving teachers around that I am grateful for, I told them.

The teacher said Faiq is clever and knows most everything whats being taught. In the heart I thank to the Creator.

Lion Dance

English version below

Rasa Faiq sangat kretif  memegang  majalah-majalah bersama flyers tak teratur di letak di mukanya kononya macam kostum lion dance. Dan ada prngikut dibelakangnya beraksi sambil berbunyi drum lagu lion dance tu. Tak sempat merakamkan video tetapi sempat snap gambar.

 english version

Faiq's too creative to create how the lion costume for the the lion dance. He took the magazines, flyers stacked together untidily and hold near his face. He acted around with the sound like of a drum. And a follower at behind imitate him, iI didn't film him but have photos taken. Thats so cute.

Lively, Fair

Pilihan hari ini menjadi ceria dengan kuasaNya

Wednesday, 23 October 2013

"I am cheered with His permits"

I know I blog about my morning most but its kind spontaneous feeling though I have called hubby and mom to share the story already. I am cheered by a beautiful cheerleader. She is only five years old, her name is Dania. She is helpful and care for Faiq at school.

Chak :)

She would say "Hi Faiq" and kiss him on the cheek sometime, even Yuen Shen did that too but Dania took and carried Faiq's bag to the class, see how thoughtful is Dania for Faiq.

Today at the car after Faiq went in, teacher Fariza told me that Dania wore scarf yesterday. The teacher asked her why all of a sudden she wears scarf,  and she answered

   "I want to look like Faiq's mom"  said Faiq's friend Dania.

How sweet and touched me in the heart. The the teacher continues that I have an admirer that all never thought. I feel embarrassed but say my scarf a little longer now because today I put on like Sophia Loren in convertible car and the teacher smile said sweet too.I like to find Dania's photos if I have in school's album. Dania is a beautiful girl, I think I ever told her that.

Wassalam with love,Fair

I cite Ya Lateef from the beginning to have ease and peace

Thursday, 17 October 2013 - i wrote this earlier on.

From yesterday, I determine not to have any extra matter to attend to for instant like Faiq wants to stay in the car instead getting down into the school so I cited "Ya Lateef" which is I remember only that two words a special friend of mind told me to cite to our kids before going to sleep. In fact I was there when she said to her daughter goodnight and sweet dreams but her daughter came back and ask her to cite duas at her crown head, then the mother said she has a friend who is me with her now and continue asking her daughter try to sleep first then she will come later and doa.

So I cite from yesterday while doing anything to something, and today I realise it was easy in the beginning but in the Faiq said "I want to see papa". I simply reply 'but we are late already". It happened like this before I fulfill his request since my hubby's office is just before his school. He met papa and went to school happily.

But today I did not do that, I sent him, I did not talk much. More action this time, it was ok til at the school's door. Then he was calm, I went to the car and talk to one of  his friend's mother who is a teacher said it is okay to force which is the only way I had.

I went back to the teacher and gave his milk, I just did not want to waste it, and saw he's in the assembly. Alhamdulillah, I have made it to be more like rule maker and managed to make him obey and hope he knows I and him did the right thing today.


I search the meaning of Ya Lateef at  Deenislam.co.uk  Powerful Dua Wird --Ya Lateef - O Gentle
-Ya Lateef /Ya Latif - O Gentle / Subtle

Allah is gentle with His servants. he provides for whom He wills, and he is the Strong the Mighty.
Allahu Latifun bi 'ibadihi, yarzuqu man yasha'u, wa huwa l'-Qawiyyu l-'Aziz

From His beautiful and excellent Names is (Ya Lateef -O Gentle) Al-lateef: the meaning is the Ever-Discreetly Gentle, most affectionate, the knower of all sublities, The Subtle One, The Gracious, The One who is kind to His slaves and endows upon them, Most affectionate or knower of innermost secrets. He is the most delicate, fine, gentle, beautiful one. He is the one who knows the finest details of beauty. The finest of His beauties are hidden in the secrets of the beauties of the soul, wisdom, and divine light.

Subtle/Gentle: (1) so slight as to be difficult to detect or analyze, (2) operating in a hidden way [American Heritage Dictonary, 3rd Edition]. Latif: in the Arabic language: (1) the One who gives us our wants in a subtle way, (2) the One who does not wrong his servants even a little bit, (3) the One who shows grace to His creation by giving them their needs with gentleness and subtlety, (4) the One who knows the hidden delicacies of affairs [Fayruzabadi, The Encompassing Dictionary].

Whoever reads this Name Ya Lateef daily, Allah will grant abundance in his rizq (sustenance) and cause all his tasks to be accomplished without difficulties.

It is the noble attribute of Allah that saves one from poverty, misery, sickness, loneliness or any adversity, for Allah will surely grant him deliverance – Insha-Allah. ( For the one that has the ‘Ijaza-permission to recite Ya Lateef which is part of our daily Wird in our Tariqah )

( the hint is that the word lateef reminds you of lutf.. and basically ‘lutf in food’ ..like the pleasure in eating. So, rizq is easy to remember and others (poverty, misery & sickness) are non-lutf stuff)

Son ex ice :)

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Assalamualaikum kawan2 yg diingati selalu, sy dh ada instagram babypose nanti tinggal link, bole sy follow :)

Komunikasi & kerjasama / Communicate & Coorporate

English version below. Gracias :)
 

Assalamualaikum darling readers yang dikasihi,
 

Saya suka komen dalam facebook tentang Taska/Tadika. Tindakkan terbaik sebagai ibu iaitu berkomunikasi yang berkesan dapat menyelesaikan atau memberi faedah pada semua pihak iaitu guru, anak dan saya.

Masa pendaftaran di tadika, saya beritahu guru, bahawa anak saya jarang bergaul dengan kanak-kanak lain sebabnya dia ditinggal dirumah, melainkan ke rumah maktok dan tokwan. Itupun sepupunya pun dah besar.

Saya beritahu kalau anak saya main itu ini, lari sana sini, panjat turun tu bermakna dia hendakkan perhatian, sebab dia mahu diberi susu, roti, atau nak tengok kucing kalau dirumah., biasanya hendak main sesuatu yang baru. Guru memberi respons yang positif bahawa dia akan biarkan dulu dan bertanya apa dia mahu sebab ada kanak-kanak lebih memerhati sambil bermain-main dan perlahan-lahan akan turut serta dengan kanak-kanak lain. Jadi, saya kata oh ok, harapan sy menyenangkan pihak guru. Satu hari saya ternampak anak saya dia lebih menjadi guru dari ikut kanak-kanak lain duduk mendengar, anak saya berdiri seolah dia guru...Dalam pada tu saya bertanya ok ke teacher, teacher beritahu its ok kerana dia kanak-kanak yang paling muda dia seorang lelaki, dua kanak-kanak perempuan yang sama umurnya duduk jauh juga dari kanak-kanak lebih tua, teacher tunjukkan kedudukkan mereka dan oleh kerana mereka perempuan lebih memerhati(observe) dulu.

Saya rasa ibu-ibu di sana perlu beritahu apa kemahuan anak-anak kita pada guru atau pengasuh sebagai perkenalan supaya mereka lebih peka kelakuan kanak-kanak dan menyenangkan semua pihak.

niat, nyatakan, nikmat
salam mesra,
babY

3 foto  bawah : anak ditempat jurugambar 

Hi darling readers that are on my mind most,

I have been commentating in facebook regarding kindergarten/preschool. The best action to be taken is to let the teacher know a little bit of my kid. I told teacher that my kid is not enuf exposed with other kids unless when I bring him to grandys' house but the cousins are all grown up.

                                                                                                                         do outside the box


I told the teacher that if my kid run here and there, play this and that, hop in and out because he tries to get attention that he waits for us to ask him whether he wants milk, bread or to see the cat if hes at home. So the teacher's response was positive. She said she will ask then ask him to play as he likes, as she knows some kids are like that, play and yet observe other kids do and slow will join in. Then I just said oh ok, hope he will be fine with others. One day i saw my kid was standing as if hes a teacher and i asked teacher is it ok, she said not to worry coz, hes the youngest in school and his classmates are girls were sitting infront and observing too.

I hope all mothers communicate with the teacher to ease their task as well as ours becoz we need each other to make it work.

Intention, ilustratre, intuition
Fond regards,
babY

3 fotos : son at cameraman side 

dare to explore 

love for animal

                                                                                                    eat independently

 

tend to exercise / more approachable

 

kind to focus 

senam bersama anak, exercise with son

English version below ;  Next mission is to write in Arabic - hadiri kelas bahasa Arab sekeluarga :)

Assalamualaikum kawan-kawan yang diingati selalu,

Saya akan mencari masa untuk bersenam, hero saya yang namanya bermaksud yang terunggul, dan hidup senang dan orang atasan akan turuti bila nampak saya bersenam, extise itulah sebutannya untuk exercise. Jadi saya terangkan padanya tentang lagu yang telah menjadi kegemarannya iaitu

"Your mother" by Yusuf Islam
saya terjemahkan supaya saya sendiri faham


Who should I give my love to?                           Kepada siapa patut saya beri kasih sayang saya
My respect and my honor to                                hormat dan taat setia saya
Who should I pay good mind to?                         Kepada siapa patut saya perihatin minda dan akhlak
After Allah                                                            yang baik selepas Allah
And Rasulullah                                                    dan Rasulullah
Comes your mother                                             adalah emak saya
Who next?Your mother then my father               Siapa tu, emak saya dan bapa saya

Jadi saya berkata sambil bersenam adalah untuk kita menjaga diri, juga mensyukuri pemberian pertama Allah yang nyata iaitu jiwa dan tubuh yang sihat, makan makanan yang berkhasiat adalah ibadah sebab badan dan minda meneruskan untuk mengingat Allah, perbuatan solat membuktikan kepercayaan kita, dan yakin dalam minda dan hati untuk fokus.

Sebab saya suka berbalik fokus pada pernafasan, kerana rasa begitu ajaib pemberian ini, dan sangat tenang. Terutama bila keseorangan, saya bernafas udara,angin, oxigen, tah apa cuma Allah yang mengetahui.


intention, innerpeace, interest
sayang,
babY



Greeting to friends with remembrance,
I will find time to do some physical and breathing exercise. Of course my hero who's name means well off, superior, will join me when he saw me doing it. Extise he would say it for exercise.
While doing I explain to him about the song of his favorite

 " Your mother by Yusuf Islam"

Who should I give my love to?
My respect and my honor to
Who should I pay good mind to?                        
After Allah                                                           
And Rasulullah                                                   
Comes your mother
Who next?Your mother and then father                                      

I told him that exercise is to appreciate the gift of Allah that so obvious. And to be healthy and selective in food taking is to take care of body that we start of then to continue submission by action, and mind and heart to focus on.

I love the beauty of come back to focus on our breathing is so serene and peace, which is miracle. especially when I am alone, I have the air or breathe oxygen or what, only Allah knows.

nafas, niat, naluri,
love,
babY

photo ; you feel your strong now, Alhamdulillah

Son's birthday/harijadi anak

English version below-

 

Foto dibawah adalah sambutan harijadi yg lepas2 dimana bulan ini bulan harijadi hero saya, masih berfikir nak buat kek macam mana. Tapi saya ingat nak atur strawberri dgn anggur hitam atau chocolate atas whip cream dan nak jadikan bentuk ladybug, bole ke?  Idea untuk menggalakkan kawan2 dia dan dia makan buah ;) Di jemput tengok hero sedang menonton sambil mengikut :)

 

 

The photos of the previous celebrations. As this month is the birthday month of my hero. Still thinking of cake to make. Maybe would try to fill strawberries and grapes into ladybug shape on whip cream, do you think possible? The idea is to encourage his young friends and him as well to eat fruits ;)

 

hi-5-No.1

 

 

lovely thots and prayers

babY

High five - son

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My son participated /

Anak turut serta :)