Pages

January 22, 2014

"I have a blessed 2014 in bliss and must seize it"

Tuesday, 14 January 2014 - the date i composed...


Though it was the first week of school and I was figuring out how to make Faiq back into the system of a school schedule and mood. I bumped with a new teacher and told me that Faiq is kind of different kid, he walked around with food in hand and the other kids follow him. He showed that he knew what he's learning, and expect something new.

The teacher said she wants my permission or green light for her to raise her voice with Faiq. If the next day Faiq hesitates to go to school I have to explain it to him that the teacher scolded him because...

I spoke to teacher that the teacher need to get him into the school or learning environment or atmosphere as this is the first week of school. At the back of my mind, I know it is not easy to handle many kids. I told the teacher make it clear to him that he needs to sit while eating and let him know that his peers ( usually the girls) are doing the same.

As I recalled I send Faiq to school is first to get him to have peers for him to learn from. I believe kids learn from friend of their age. So since school holiday, I also took leisure off thinking of school, I got panicked too.

So the teacher said ok for us to get him to school first then only get him interested in sitting down to learn not stray to explore during class.

I feel and focus of what I will fascinate about this is to get Faiq most improved student this year of 2014.

InshaAllah,
Fair

 after sport's day 

January 16, 2014

I am glad for the humming birds to wake us up in the morning

The post was written on Oct 2013


And the morning prayers energize me and the prayers keep me going. After I folded my prayer mat, I open our bedroom windows' curtains with gratefulness how the beautiful views I see it every morning. Sometimes it crosses in my mind whether will I get a better view next or at the same time or both. Just some thoughts to have more of the world when I look at the sky and the trees' line that separate the earth near me.

I tied curtains in the middle like tying a girl's long hair with the curtain pins. I find it so nice and cozy with the plain curtains that flow down nicely and moves when the wind blows in.

Not long I had to turn to the messed bed and leave the relax view behind and quick thinking where and how should I start again my morning...

It takes a fast decision to make at that point whether to make the bed or make the milk for the kids...

1. Fix milk for kids
2. Make the bed to wake the kids up
3. Kiss him
4. Walk with the kids to the bathroom
5. Give him tooth paste and the brush
6. Bathe him while he brushes teeth
7. Towel
8. Let him put on his clothes or uniforms by himself
9. Let him sit and give him Gardenia raisins bread

Then his sister's turn, repeat the same thing with less talking for them to focus on doing.
But no.9. Give her a bottle of milk.

While I get dress up and grab my bag and fill the school bag with 1 set of clothes, small towel and brunch box and water bottle.

Call them down, carry Fadya down straight to the car and faiq walked himself to the car. But he stops for insects or bugs at the porch. And say "look mama, ants. Then i would "how many? Or what colour?".

Once they are in the car, I buckle them up in the car seats. Give the milk to faiq as fadya's sticks at her.

Switch on the Yusuf Islam compilation, the kids love the songs even sing along.

If we arrive early, faiq's teacher would be there to greet him with a pleasant smile that cheered sheikh the name they call faiq.

I thank God for at least a quarter of my day had done, sometimes end up breakfast out with my loving husband and lovely daughter Fadya. Lucky me and love it so much when that happens. I know the rest of the day would be better til night and the next.
Fadya at breakie time

View from the window



I would like to thank my best friend Mrs Lyna Osman for getting me back of my blog for her encouragement and reminder In our conversation this afternoon. Thanks and lots of love, Fair






January 15, 2014

I cite Ya Lateef from the beginning to have ease and peace

Thursday, 17 October 2013 - i wrote this earlier on.


From yesterday, I determine not to have any extra matter to attend to for instant like Faiq wants to stay in the car instead getting down into the school so I cited "Ya Lateef" which is I remember only that two words a special friend of mind told me to cite to our kids before going to sleep. In fact I was there when she said to her daughter goodnight and sweet dreams but her daughter came back and ask her to cite duas at her crown head, then the mother said she has a friend who is me with her now and continue asking her daughter try to sleep first then she will come later and doa.

So I cite from yesterday while doing anything to something, and today I realise it was easy in the beginning but in the Faiq said "I want to see papa". I simply reply 'but we are late already". It happened like this before I fulfill his request since my hubby's office is just before his school. He met papa and went to school happily.

But today I did not do that, I sent him, I did not talk much. More action this time, it was ok til at the school's door. Then he was calm, I went to the car and talk to one of  his friend's mother who is a teacher said it is okay to force which is the only way I had.

I went back to the teacher and gave his milk, I just did not want to waste it, and saw he's in the assembly. Alhamdulillah, I have made it to be more like rule maker and managed to make him obey and hope he knows I and him did the right thing today.


I search the meaning of Ya Lateef at  Deenislam.co.uk  Powerful Dua Wird --Ya Lateef - O Gentle
-Ya Lateef /Ya Latif - O Gentle / Subtle

Allah is gentle with His servants. he provides for whom He wills, and he is the Strong the Mighty.
Allahu Latifun bi 'ibadihi, yarzuqu man yasha'u, wa huwa l'-Qawiyyu l-'Aziz
From His beautiful and excellent Names is (Ya Lateef -O Gentle) Al-lateef: the meaning is the Ever-Discreetly Gentle, most affectionate, the knower of all sublities, The Subtle One, The Gracious, The One who is kind to His slaves and endows upon them, Most affectionate or knower of innermost secrets. He is the most delicate, fine, gentle, beautiful one. He is the one who knows the finest details of beauty. The finest of His beauties are hidden in the secrets of the beauties of the soul, wisdom, and divine light.
Subtle/Gentle: (1) so slight as to be difficult to detect or analyze, (2) operating in a hidden way [American Heritage Dictonary, 3rd Edition]. Latif: in the Arabic language: (1) the One who gives us our wants in a subtle way, (2) the One who does not wrong his servants even a little bit, (3) the One who shows grace to His creation by giving them their needs with gentleness and subtlety, (4) the One who knows the hidden delicacies of affairs [Fayruzabadi, The Encompassing Dictionary].
Whoever reads this Name Ya Lateef daily, Allah will grant abundance in his rizq (sustenance) and cause all his tasks to be accomplished without difficulties.
It is the noble attribute of Allah that saves one from poverty, misery, sickness, loneliness or any adversity, for Allah will surely grant him deliverance – Insha-Allah. ( For the one that has the ‘Ijaza-permission to recite Ya Lateef which is part of our daily Wird in our Tariqah )
( the hint is that the word lateef reminds you of lutf.. and basically ‘lutf in food’ ..like the pleasure in eating. So, rizq is easy to remember and others (poverty, misery & sickness) are non-lutf stuff)


July 3, 2013

Intention is better than Ambition

 -berniat lebih baik dari berimpian-

Since I have read most that we have now need to write down our dreams (impian) in the motivators' way. I agree with that, as from before til now I believe in

1) wish (mohon)
2) want and admit that I want (mahu dan mengaku mahu),
3) pray that be granted and act like already achieved  (mendoakan supaya makbul dan membawa diri seperti layak memiliki).

As before I always say "admire fire up desire" berminat membangkit kehendak" it is almost like it is but more add up with rules this time.

so I admire Famous Amos but love most Harrods.

This is what I want to get and only Allah knows behind it and how. Got me and set yours too :)


Source from Wikipedia
  
Harrods
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Jump to: navigation, search
Harrods
Type Private company
Industry Retail
Genre Department Store
Founded 1834
Founder(s) Charles Henry Harrod
Headquarters London, United Kingdom
Key people Hamad bin Jassim bin Jaber Al Thani, Hussain Al Abdulla, Ahmad Al Sayed, Kamel Maamria, Michael Ward
Products Quality & luxury goods
Revenue £651 million (2012)
Net income £125 million (2012)
Owner(s) Qatar Investment Authority
Employees 6,000
Website www.harrods.com
Harrods is an upmarket department store located in Brompton Road in Knightsbridge, in the Royal Borough of Kensington and Chelsea, London. The Harrods brand also applies to other enterprises undertaken by the Harrods group of companies including Harrods Bank, Harrods Estates, Harrods Aviation and Air Harrods, and to Harrods Buenos Aires, sold by Harrods in 1922 and closed as of 2011, with plans announced to reopen in 2013.[1]
The store occupies a 5-acre (20,000 m2) site and has over one million square feet (90,000 m2) of selling space in over 330 departments making it the biggest department store in Europe. The UK's second-biggest shop, Selfridges, Oxford Street, is a little over half the size with 540,000 square feet (50,000 m2) of selling space.,[2] while the third largest, Allders of Croydon had 500,000 square feet (46,000 m2) of retail space. By comparison Europe's second-largest department store the KaDeWe in Berlin has a retail space of 650,000 square feet (60,000 m2).
The Harrods motto is Omnia Omnibus UbiqueAll Things for All People, Everywhere. Several of its departments, including the seasonal Christmas department and the Food Hall, are world famous.

Contents

History


Fashion plate of 1909 shows wealthy Londoners walking in front of Harrods
Harrods founder Charles Henry Harrod first established his business in 1824, aged 25. The business was located south of the River Thames in Southwark. The premises were located at 228 Borough High Street. He ran this business, variously listed as a draper, mercer and a haberdasher, certainly until 1831.[3][4][5] During 1825 the business was listed as 'Harrod and Wicking, Linen Drapers, Retail',[6] but this partnership was dissolved at the end of that year.[7] His first grocery business appears to be as ‘Harrod & Co.Grocers’ at 163 Upper Whitecross Street, Clerkenwell, E.C.1., in 1832.[8] In 1834 in London's East End, he established a wholesale grocery in Stepney, at 4, Cable Street, with a special interest in tea. In 1849, to escape the vice of the inner city and to capitalise on trade to the Great Exhibition of 1851 in nearby Hyde Park, Harrod took over a small shop in the district of Brompton, on the site of the current store. Beginning in a single room employing two assistants and a messenger boy, Harrod's son Charles Digby Harrod built the business into a thriving retail operation selling medicines, perfumes, stationery, fruit and vegetables. Harrods rapidly expanded, acquired the adjoining buildings, and employed one hundred people by 1880.
However, the store's booming fortunes were reversed in early December 1883, when it burnt to the ground. Remarkably, in view of this calamity, Charles Harrod fulfilled all of his commitments to his customers to make Christmas deliveries that year—and made a record profit in the process. In short order, a new building was built on the same site, and soon Harrods extended credit for the first time to its best customers, among them Oscar Wilde, Lillie Langtry, Ellen Terry, Charlie Chaplin, Noël Coward, Gertrude Lawrence, Laurence Olivier and Vivien Leigh, Sigmund Freud, A. A. Milne, and many members of the British Royal Family.
On Wednesday, 16 November 1898, Harrods debuted England's first "moving staircase" (escalator) in their Brompton Road stores; the device was actually a woven leather conveyor belt-like unit with a mahogany and "silver plate-glass" balustrade.[9] Nervous customers were offered brandy at the top to revive them after their 'ordeal'. The department store was purchased by the Fayed brothers in 1985.[10]


April 29, 2013

Seerah Rasulullah SAW Retreat Camp / Tahajjud

Assalamualaikum kawan-kawan blogs yang didoakan semoga dirahmati selalu,

Saya bersyukur kepada Allah SWT telah menghantar hamba Allah SWT iaitu kakak saya sendiri menjemput dan sponsor saya suami isteri ke Majlis yang memberi manfaat pada saya sekeluarga iaitu Majlis Seerah Rasulullah SAW. Dengan menghadiri Majlis ini, saya mempelajari lebih mendalam lagi sejarah Nabi Muhammad SAW terutama solat Tahajud adalah sumber rezeki dan kebaikan dengan mendirikannya dengan kushuq.


                                                                                                                           Inspiration



Nabi Muhammad SAW dilahirkan di Mekah pada tahun 570 Masehi. Semasa itu, Mekah adalah tempat penghentian para dagang dari Yemen ke Syria. Beliau adalah anak yatim pada usia muda, Rasululllah SAW dikenali sebagai seorang budak yang tenang dan boleh dipercayai.(source dari iMuslim booklet)

Yang menarik sekali tentang solat Tahajud ni yang disampaikan oleh Ustaz Abdulbary Yahya, beliau menggambarkan Tahajud adalah waktu Allah SWT ingin memberi hadiah kepada kita, jika kita tidak bangun membuka pintu dengan bersolat Tahajjud pada waktu malam seperti kita tidak mendengari ketukkan pintu olehNya.

"Saya sangat terharu bila diberitahu Ustaz Abudlbary Yahya bahawa Allah SWT menunggu kita menyambutNya dengan mendirikan Solat Tahajud pada waktu malam untuk memberi hadiah kesukaan atau permintaan kita.

 Dengan pengalaman yang saya lalui saya berasa sedih kerana saya sangat liat untuk bangun untuk Tahajud, TETAPI bila ada musibah, saya tidak dapat lelapkan mata, tetapi kerana terlalu letih memikirkan solusi untuk menyelesaikan atau untuk mengharungi keadaan yang sesak, saya boleh terjaga didalam lena dengan senangnya bangun dan bersolat Tahajud, menangis dalam sujud. Dan Allah SWT beri apa yang diminta, Alhamdulillah.

TETAPI bila senang, saya mementingkan tidur tanpa terdetik untuk bersujud syukur dalam solat Tahajud atau untuk memupuk diri untuk mendirikan Solat Tahajud untuk menghindari musibah terjadi lagi atau bersyukur untuk mendekati diri padaNya. Sedihnya dengan berharap setiap malam dapat mendirikan Tahajud", InshaAllah."

Alhamdulillah kerana Allah SWT telah menyelamatkan saya yang merancang untuk membawa suami ke senaman Yoga retreat dan memberi jalan yang benar untuk merehatkan diri dan minda adalah dengan cara Sunnah.


Tips untuk memupuk diri menjadi positif ialah dengan memikir dan menyebarkan tentang kesukaan anda. Apa yang anda syukuri, nyatakan dan Sukses yang anda niatkan, tunjukkan...

    a change

salam sayang semoga bertemu lagi,
babY


English Version,

I feel touched listening to the Scholar Ustaz Abdulbary Yahya that he told us that Allah is coming with gifts to give to us when we wake up to perform Solat Tahajud. When he comes we still asleep is like we didn't hear His knocks at the door.

My own experience when I have calamity, I can get awaken in asleep so easily, and perform Tahajud and cry in prostration, Alhamdulillah, Allah SWT gave what I have asked for. Sadly when everything is well, I become lazy and enjoy sleeping more and don't feel bad not to remember Allah SWT at night. Teary eyes and hope that I make Tahajud every night.

                                                                                                                                                Ready

Tips to be positive in talking and action, is to spread your loves on anything or anybody, list out what success that you intend to achieve, show what you are grateful for...

love that enlightens,
babY

LinkWithin

Blog Widget by LinkWithin