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September 20, 2021

A morning at the kitchen | Sepagi di dapur

Bahasa dan video kurang seminit di bawah :)

English version and less than one minute video below :) 


When having breakfast separately / Bila bersarapan asing-asing


When will lunch be prepared, breakfast enjoyed by one after another. / tiada ruang nak mula memasak untuk makan tengahari bila sarapan bergilir-gilir


This morning, I've made a decision not to say anything to kids as long as it's not harmful or dangerous. The worst case scenario that I saw she used metal tongs to tweak & pull out the pancake in the toaster. I told her many times to switch off at the plug or use plastic tongs instead.


Actually its not a big deal as the the toaster not pressed on. It was off, yet back of the mind I worried the tong is wet.  But grateful everything is fine n


My aim to make adik a morning person. Actually we didn't have breakfast together for awhile. Abang had breakie alone after dusk, then get ready to school online at 7:30am. Later, me and my dear hubby had breakfast and adik didn't come in yet. 


While I was sitting, that's when I was looking at adik and saw how adik would think and did her breakfast. Sometime bread with marshmallows, the small marshmallows left a bit for drinks. She took it on her bread. No wonder she is quiet when having her food, because she didn't want us to comment on something, I think. 


I'm not sure how to 'parent' kids, is this right sentence hehe but how my mom did was simple; She would left breakfast stuff under the food cover, and wrote a love note. It's lovely too. 


I used to write in abang dan adik's lunch box, but abang said he ate the fruits in the car and the note he had read and keep. Maybe he felt embarrassed if his friends saw it.  

Adik heated up chilled pancake in the toaster


That's the journey of that particular kid of today :) 


Happy monday❤️ again.. Time flies so fast, may have blessings in each day. 


Pagi ni saya buat keputusan tak nak tegur apa-apa, hanya nak duduk dan lihat saja. Selagi semua baik saja dan tidak merbahayakan diri, biarkan ajalah.


Senario yang paling ketara pun yang nampak, adik guna tong besi untuk kepit dan keluarkan penkek tu dari pembakar roti, kalau boleh nak juga cakap ambil pengepit plastik. Memang risau dengan elektrik, berlogam atau basah walaupun pembakar roti tidak ditekan pasang hehe. Alhamdulillah semuanya ok.


Matlamatnya nak adik bangun pagi dan terus bersarapan, tidak tidur balik.


Saya dah abis sarapan, Itu yang dapat duduk dan lihat, bila adik masuk perhati apa yang adik lakukan.


Sebenarnya dah lama tak bersarapan sekali pun, abang bersarapan sendiri selepas subuh, dan terus ke sekolah atas talian pukul 7:30am. Saya dan suami bersarapan selepas itu. Dan adik yang terakhirlah.


Kadang-kadang dia letak marshmallow atas roti, Marshmallow tu memang dah sikit untuk minuman panas. Dia letak atas roti. Senyap ja makan seorang diri. Sebab tu diam sayang, tak nak la mama komen apa-apa kut. 


Tak pasti la saya nak mendidik anak-anak, macam ibu saya letak makanan bawah tudung dan letak nota cinta yng ditulis ditepi, ibu pegi kerja dan ingatkan saya makan sarapan. Sweetkan. Saya pernah buat dalam lunch box abang adik. Abang kata dia makan buah dalam kereta dan mesej tu dah baca dan simpan. Sebab segan makan buah disekolah berkertas mesej lagi. 

Adik panaskan penkeknya di dalam pembakar roti


Itulah perjalanan hidup seorang kanak-kanak zaman sekarang dari rumah ini lah :) 


Salam Isnin ❤️ cepatnya masa berlalu, moga ada keberkatan dalam setiap hari. 


PS : Adik approved the blog and video. 


July 25, 2021

Labu Yogurt Layered / Membaca perlu PG = Parent Guide?

Bahasa dan video seminit di bawah:) English version dan one minute video below :) 

Melapiskan labu dengan yogurt ditabur manisan.. 

Abang membaca buku biasa pun perlu ditegur.. 

Labu, yogurt, serbuk gula merah atau madu, abang menggunakan penanda buku DIY, uncang tehnya


During the hot day here, the sky is blue indicates that the air is clean and fresh. Due to heat and humid, being outside couldnt stand too long.  Went out, back under the roof, not just that but search for cold liquid to quench the throat. Seek the icecream by chance if lucky might have. Sadly theres none, came across of pumpkins and yogurt, since natural yogurt not yummy at this moment. I figure to mix between and sprinkle with brown sugar or honey for an option.

The natural taste yogurt is meant for my journey to eat no sugar. I had no choice but u turn the old route. Here i go with pumpkins steamed, scoop in the meat or pulp in the recycled jam jar, 1.5cm thick each, alternate with yogurt same level then repeat, and get ready with another empty jar. The target is to finish the two ingredients, as if not to satisfy the icecream cravings.  Settled, so delicious the combination, one must try. 

We did some reading session, abang read well yet need to guide on the Prophet's name, that we must mention peace be upon him as a doa citation. Not just at movie or tv show need parental guide but on reading material as well. Depends on certain books some is written some dont. So thats why we need parent guide on if possible. It requires practice though, by the way abang already used his own diy bookmark, bravo! 


Have a nice day 🌹


Hari panas-panas, jenguk langit, biru, udara bersih. Sebabkan panas, keluar sekejap, lari masuk, cari air menghilangkan dahaga. Tersua buah labu, terus kukus. Pada mulanya mencari-cari juga aiskrim ke kut2 pernah beli, tak da pun, tahu kalau terbeli yogurt mesti habiskan sebelum ttarikh luput. Tapi yogurt natural  yang dibeli untuk nak makan dengan buah manis sebab nak cuba kurang gula. 

Pi mai pi mai, tak buah pula, hentam je labu, terpaksa pusingan u (u turn hehe) . Tak boleh nak pi pula tak manis,  buat je dulu, biar selesai hal yogurt, nanti rugi bila luput.

Jadi berbalik ke kukuskan labu, pelan-pelan masukkan isi labu dalam botol jem ulang pakai, dalam 1. 5cm, gilir dengan yogurt, sama tebalnya, ulang sampai ke puncak, ambil sebotol lagi, ulangi, target habiskan labu dan yogurt. Selesai dapat pencuci mulut berkhasiat, lazat memang patut trai.

Tentang pembacaan yang patut ditegur dalam video tu ialah disebabkan buku yang ambil ringan tentang nama Nabi tidak ditulis sallallahualaiwasalam. Jadi tegurlah yang mana ingat dan tahu. Biasa parental guide PG tu kat drama atau telefilem tetapi di bahan bacaan pun kena tapi bergantung pada setengah buku. Dan abang pun dah guna bookmaark buat sendiri dalam buku Prophet Muhammad SAW. Alhamdulillah.


Moga kalian berbahagia selalu🌸

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