"I praised the Prophet SAW for peace in me and relief to live"

To give birth to my lovely daughter Fadya who was born 12 Jan 2012. Praising Prophet made it easier for me to go out of a painless and uncomfortable situation to give birth to a beautiful baby girl. Alhamdulillah. It was planned birth date but it was the due date that nobody knew but me, that was very uncomfortable and slow preparation from the hospital. I was due but the thing was the nurses thought it was a plan and could take it slow that was challenging for me. I praised the Prophet with my heart that I could go through this. My lips kept praising, my heart consoling me that a human could make it and meant to make it like the prophet too. Getting done with it it was not easy as it was not in our hand to push others to make the progress fast but only with doa. I got calmed with the doas and praising to let the time came fast for me to go through the waiting time that  I anxiously waited for 9 months and to comfort myself by praising to SAW just for few minutes or hours it did not matter as long as my baby and me would be safe. Exhausted, excited and I asked from Allah to redha for me to Enjoy the gift He granted to me.

Last week we celebrated Fadya 2nd birthday. It was ad-hoc gift from my sister and my brother which hosted by my nephew, the dinner was meant for brother who is posting to San Jose for a new job, so it was a See you later dinner plus a small cake to mark the birthday for dearest Fadya. I love you and everybody loves you, shayang mama ni shangat-shangat ni..

Slice of cake for a great party

"I have a blessed 2014 in bliss and must seize it"

Tuesday, 14 January 2014 - the date i composed...

Though it was the first week of school and I was figuring out how to make Faiq back into the system of a school schedule and mood. I bumped with a new teacher and told me that Faiq is kind of different kid, he walked around with food in hand and the other kids follow him. He showed that he knew what he's learning, and expect something new.

The teacher said she wants my permission or green light for her to raise her voice with Faiq. If the next day Faiq hesitates to go to school I have to explain it to him that the teacher scolded him because...

I spoke to teacher that the teacher need to get him into the school or learning environment or atmosphere as this is the first week of school. At the back of my mind, I know it is not easy to handle many kids. I told the teacher make it clear to him that he needs to sit while eating and let him know that his peers ( usually the girls) are doing the same.

As I recalled I send Faiq to school is first to get him to have peers for him to learn from. I believe kids learn from friend of their age. So since school holiday, I also took leisure off thinking of school, I got panicked too.

So the teacher said ok for us to get him to school first then only get him interested in sitting down to learn not stray to explore during class.

I feel and focus of what I will fascinate about this is to get Faiq most improved student this year of 2014.

InshaAllah,
Fair

 

 after sport's day 

I am glad for the humming birds to wake us up in the morning

The post was written on Oct 2013


And the morning prayers energize me and the prayers keep me going. After I folded my prayer mat, I open our bedroom windows' curtains with gratefulness how the beautiful views I see it every morning. Sometimes it crosses in my mind whether will I get a better view next or at the same time or both. Just some thoughts to have more of the world when I look at the sky and the trees' line that separate the earth near me.

I tied curtains in the middle like tying a girl's long hair with the curtain pins. I find it so nice and cozy with the plain curtains that flow down nicely and moves when the wind blows in.

Not long I had to turn to the messed bed and leave the relax view behind and quick thinking where and how should I start again my morning...

It takes a fast decision to make at that point whether to make the bed or make the milk for the kids...

1. Fix milk for kids
2. Make the bed to wake the kids up
3. Kiss him
4. Walk with the kids to the bathroom
5. Give him tooth paste and the brush
6. Bathe him while he brushes teeth
7. Towel
8. Let him put on his clothes or uniforms by himself
9. Let him sit and give him Gardenia raisins bread

Then his sister's turn, repeat the same thing with less talking for them to focus on doing.
But no.9. Give her a bottle of milk.

While I get dress up and grab my bag and fill the school bag with 1 set of clothes, small towel and brunch box and water bottle.

Call them down, carry Fadya down straight to the car and faiq walked himself to the car. But he stops for insects or bugs at the porch. And say "look mama, ants. Then i would "how many? Or what colour?".

Once they are in the car, I buckle them up in the car seats. Give the milk to faiq as fadya's sticks at her.

Switch on the Yusuf Islam compilation, the kids love the songs even sing along.

If we arrive early, faiq's teacher would be there to greet him with a pleasant smile that cheered sheikh the name they call faiq.

I thank God for at least a quarter of my day had done, sometimes end up breakfast out with my loving husband and lovely daughter Fadya. Lucky me and love it so much when that happens. I know the rest of the day would be better til night and the next.

Fadya at breakie time

View from the window

I would like to thank my best friend Mrs Lyna Osman for getting me back of my blog for her encouragement and reminder In our conversation this afternoon. Thanks and lots of love, Fair

I cite Ya Lateef from the beginning to have ease and peace

Thursday, 17 October 2013 - i wrote this earlier on.

From yesterday, I determine not to have any extra matter to attend to for instant like Faiq wants to stay in the car instead getting down into the school so I cited "Ya Lateef" which is I remember only that two words a special friend of mind told me to cite to our kids before going to sleep. In fact I was there when she said to her daughter goodnight and sweet dreams but her daughter came back and ask her to cite duas at her crown head, then the mother said she has a friend who is me with her now and continue asking her daughter try to sleep first then she will come later and doa.

So I cite from yesterday while doing anything to something, and today I realise it was easy in the beginning but in the Faiq said "I want to see papa". I simply reply 'but we are late already". It happened like this before I fulfill his request since my hubby's office is just before his school. He met papa and went to school happily.

But today I did not do that, I sent him, I did not talk much. More action this time, it was ok til at the school's door. Then he was calm, I went to the car and talk to one of  his friend's mother who is a teacher said it is okay to force which is the only way I had.

I went back to the teacher and gave his milk, I just did not want to waste it, and saw he's in the assembly. Alhamdulillah, I have made it to be more like rule maker and managed to make him obey and hope he knows I and him did the right thing today.


I search the meaning of Ya Lateef at  Deenislam.co.uk  Powerful Dua Wird --Ya Lateef - O Gentle
-Ya Lateef /Ya Latif - O Gentle / Subtle

Allah is gentle with His servants. he provides for whom He wills, and he is the Strong the Mighty.
Allahu Latifun bi 'ibadihi, yarzuqu man yasha'u, wa huwa l'-Qawiyyu l-'Aziz

From His beautiful and excellent Names is (Ya Lateef -O Gentle) Al-lateef: the meaning is the Ever-Discreetly Gentle, most affectionate, the knower of all sublities, The Subtle One, The Gracious, The One who is kind to His slaves and endows upon them, Most affectionate or knower of innermost secrets. He is the most delicate, fine, gentle, beautiful one. He is the one who knows the finest details of beauty. The finest of His beauties are hidden in the secrets of the beauties of the soul, wisdom, and divine light.

Subtle/Gentle: (1) so slight as to be difficult to detect or analyze, (2) operating in a hidden way [American Heritage Dictonary, 3rd Edition]. Latif: in the Arabic language: (1) the One who gives us our wants in a subtle way, (2) the One who does not wrong his servants even a little bit, (3) the One who shows grace to His creation by giving them their needs with gentleness and subtlety, (4) the One who knows the hidden delicacies of affairs [Fayruzabadi, The Encompassing Dictionary].

Whoever reads this Name Ya Lateef daily, Allah will grant abundance in his rizq (sustenance) and cause all his tasks to be accomplished without difficulties.

It is the noble attribute of Allah that saves one from poverty, misery, sickness, loneliness or any adversity, for Allah will surely grant him deliverance – Insha-Allah. ( For the one that has the ‘Ijaza-permission to recite Ya Lateef which is part of our daily Wird in our Tariqah )

( the hint is that the word lateef reminds you of lutf.. and basically ‘lutf in food’ ..like the pleasure in eating. So, rizq is easy to remember and others (poverty, misery & sickness) are non-lutf stuff)

Intention is better than Ambition

 -berniat lebih baik dari berimpian-

Since I have read most that we have now need to write down our dreams (impian) in the motivators' way. I agree with that, as from before til now I believe in

1) wish (mohon)
2) want and admit that I want (mahu dan mengaku mahu),
3) pray that be granted and act like already achieved  (mendoakan supaya makbul dan membawa diri seperti layak memiliki).

As before I always say "admire fire up desire" berminat membangkit kehendak" it is almost like it is but more add up with rules this time.

so I admire Famous Amos but love most Harrods.

This is what I want to get and only Allah knows behind it and how. Got me and set yours too :)


Source from Wikipedia
  
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Harrods

Type	Private company
Industry	Retail
Genre	Department Store
Founded	1834
Founder(s)	Charles Henry Harrod
Headquarters	London, United Kingdom
Key people	Hamad bin Jassim bin Jaber Al Thani, Hussain Al Abdulla, Ahmad Al Sayed, Kamel Maamria, Michael Ward
Products	Quality & luxury goods
Revenue	£651 million (2012)
Net income	£125 million (2012)
Owner(s)	Qatar Investment Authority
Employees	6,000
Website	www.harrods.com

Harrods is an upmarket department store located in Brompton Road in Knightsbridge, in the Royal Borough of Kensington and Chelsea, London. The Harrods brand also applies to other enterprises undertaken by the Harrods group of companies including Harrods Bank, Harrods Estates, Harrods Aviation and Air Harrods, and to Harrods Buenos Aires, sold by Harrods in 1922 and closed as of 2011, with plans announced to reopen in 2013.^[1]
The store occupies a 5-acre (20,000 m²) site and has over one million square feet (90,000 m²) of selling space in over 330 departments making it the biggest department store in Europe. The UK's second-biggest shop, Selfridges, Oxford Street, is a little over half the size with 540,000 square feet (50,000 m²) of selling space.,^[2] while the third largest, Allders of Croydon had 500,000 square feet (46,000 m²) of retail space. By comparison Europe's second-largest department store the KaDeWe in Berlin has a retail space of 650,000 square feet (60,000 m²).
The Harrods motto is Omnia Omnibus Ubique—All Things for All People, Everywhere. Several of its departments, including the seasonal Christmas department and the Food Hall, are world famous.

Contents 1 History 1.1 2010 sale 1.2 Significant event timeline 2 Products and services 3 Royal warrants 4 Memorials 5 Dress code 6 Criticism 7 Crime 8 Further reading 9 See also 10 References 11 External links

History

Fashion plate of 1909 shows wealthy Londoners walking in front of Harrods

Harrods founder Charles Henry Harrod first established his business in 1824, aged 25. The business was located south of the River Thames in Southwark. The premises were located at 228 Borough High Street. He ran this business, variously listed as a draper, mercer and a haberdasher, certainly until 1831.^[3][4][5] During 1825 the business was listed as 'Harrod and Wicking, Linen Drapers, Retail',^[6] but this partnership was dissolved at the end of that year.^[7] His first grocery business appears to be as ‘Harrod & Co.Grocers’ at 163 Upper Whitecross Street, Clerkenwell, E.C.1., in 1832.^[8] In 1834 in London's East End, he established a wholesale grocery in Stepney, at 4, Cable Street, with a special interest in tea. In 1849, to escape the vice of the inner city and to capitalise on trade to the Great Exhibition of 1851 in nearby Hyde Park, Harrod took over a small shop in the district of Brompton, on the site of the current store. Beginning in a single room employing two assistants and a messenger boy, Harrod's son Charles Digby Harrod built the business into a thriving retail operation selling medicines, perfumes, stationery, fruit and vegetables. Harrods rapidly expanded, acquired the adjoining buildings, and employed one hundred people by 1880.
However, the store's booming fortunes were reversed in early December 1883, when it burnt to the ground. Remarkably, in view of this calamity, Charles Harrod fulfilled all of his commitments to his customers to make Christmas deliveries that year—and made a record profit in the process. In short order, a new building was built on the same site, and soon Harrods extended credit for the first time to its best customers, among them Oscar Wilde, Lillie Langtry, Ellen Terry, Charlie Chaplin, Noël Coward, Gertrude Lawrence, Laurence Olivier and Vivien Leigh, Sigmund Freud, A. A. Milne, and many members of the British Royal Family.
On Wednesday, 16 November 1898, Harrods debuted England's first "moving staircase" (escalator) in their Brompton Road stores; the device was actually a woven leather conveyor belt-like unit with a mahogany and "silver plate-glass" balustrade.^[9] Nervous customers were offered brandy at the top to revive them after their 'ordeal'. The department store was purchased by the Fayed brothers in 1985.^[10]

Kopi n Kraft Cafe, Janda Baik

Princess ~ having breakfast

Seerah Rasulullah SAW Retreat Camp / Tahajjud

Assalamualaikum kawan-kawan blogs yang didoakan semoga dirahmati selalu,

Saya bersyukur kepada Allah SWT telah menghantar hamba Allah SWT iaitu kakak saya sendiri menjemput dan sponsor saya suami isteri ke Majlis yang memberi manfaat pada saya sekeluarga iaitu Majlis Seerah Rasulullah SAW. Dengan menghadiri Majlis ini, saya mempelajari lebih mendalam lagi sejarah Nabi Muhammad SAW terutama solat Tahajud adalah sumber rezeki dan kebaikan dengan mendirikannya dengan kushuq.


                                                                                                                           Inspiration



Nabi Muhammad SAW dilahirkan di Mekah pada tahun 570 Masehi. Semasa itu, Mekah adalah tempat penghentian para dagang dari Yemen ke Syria. Beliau adalah anak yatim pada usia muda, Rasululllah SAW dikenali sebagai seorang budak yang tenang dan boleh dipercayai.(source dari iMuslim booklet)

Yang menarik sekali tentang solat Tahajud ni yang disampaikan oleh Ustaz Abdulbary Yahya, beliau menggambarkan Tahajud adalah waktu Allah SWT ingin memberi hadiah kepada kita, jika kita tidak bangun membuka pintu dengan bersolat Tahajjud pada waktu malam seperti kita tidak mendengari ketukkan pintu olehNya.

"Saya sangat terharu bila diberitahu Ustaz Abudlbary Yahya bahawa Allah SWT menunggu kita menyambutNya dengan mendirikan Solat Tahajud pada waktu malam untuk memberi hadiah kesukaan atau permintaan kita.

 Dengan pengalaman yang saya lalui saya berasa sedih kerana saya sangat liat untuk bangun untuk Tahajud, TETAPI bila ada musibah, saya tidak dapat lelapkan mata, tetapi kerana terlalu letih memikirkan solusi untuk menyelesaikan atau untuk mengharungi keadaan yang sesak, saya boleh terjaga didalam lena dengan senangnya bangun dan bersolat Tahajud, menangis dalam sujud. Dan Allah SWT beri apa yang diminta, Alhamdulillah.

TETAPI bila senang, saya mementingkan tidur tanpa terdetik untuk bersujud syukur dalam solat Tahajud atau untuk memupuk diri untuk mendirikan Solat Tahajud untuk menghindari musibah terjadi lagi atau bersyukur untuk mendekati diri padaNya. Sedihnya dengan berharap setiap malam dapat mendirikan Tahajud", InshaAllah."

Alhamdulillah kerana Allah SWT telah menyelamatkan saya yang merancang untuk membawa suami ke senaman Yoga retreat dan memberi jalan yang benar untuk merehatkan diri dan minda adalah dengan cara Sunnah.


Tips untuk memupuk diri menjadi positif ialah dengan memikir dan menyebarkan tentang kesukaan anda. Apa yang anda syukuri, nyatakan dan Sukses yang anda niatkan, tunjukkan...

    a change

salam sayang semoga bertemu lagi,
babY


English Version,

I feel touched listening to the Scholar Ustaz Abdulbary Yahya that he told us that Allah is coming with gifts to give to us when we wake up to perform Solat Tahajud. When he comes we still asleep is like we didn't hear His knocks at the door.

My own experience when I have calamity, I can get awaken in asleep so easily, and perform Tahajud and cry in prostration, Alhamdulillah, Allah SWT gave what I have asked for. Sadly when everything is well, I become lazy and enjoy sleeping more and don't feel bad not to remember Allah SWT at night. Teary eyes and hope that I make Tahajud every night.

                                                                                                                                                Ready

Tips to be positive in talking and action, is to spread your loves on anything or anybody, list out what success that you intend to achieve, show what you are grateful for...

love that enlightens,
babY

Lebih baik beritahu apa yang anda suka atau kebaikan sesuatu dengan penuh minat...di Facebook.

 

Anda boleh mula percakapan atau expresi begini - Saya gembira merasa diri dilayan dengan layanan yang adil.

 

Cara layanan yang saya suka dan bersyukur mereka sudah menikmatinya.

 

Beritahu bahawa anda telah menyaksikan apa yang anda impikan jika ada contoh, tunjukkan,

 

jika tiada, mungkin ada pada masa lalu, tunjukkan, jika tiada lagi, beri butiran yang akan membantu untuk membina kegembiraan/manfaat yang diidamkan, beri gambaran, suatu hari orang yang berkenaan akan mendengar.

 

Expresi apa yang mahu lebih baik beritahu dengan memuji atau dgn perkataan positif.

 

bila mesej itu jelas sebagaimana yang anda mahukan, anda lebih beruntung dan dapat kelebihan kerana satu ayat dah tahu anda suka itu, bagaimana itu dilakukan adil ikut syariah islam ke apa ke...semuanya telah disebut. kalau mengeji, orang dengar yang anda tidak suka tetapi mereka tidak dapat berubah kerana mereka tidak diberitahu :)

 

berniat lebih baik berimpian,

salam sayang,

babY

for english version


Dalam expresi bahasa Inggeris expresi diri berbunyi begini

" I am glad to see they are being treated fairly, I feel at peace.

I love how he/she does, (if the person exist) if not I will pray so and I want and wish this to happen or continue because we have tools, skills, capable people here...

I see it and my instinct says so, I will make sure this will happen because it gives happiness/benefit to the young and all, the way it suppose to be.

When the message is clear how you want it, you will earn and gain.

Son ex ice :)

Watch "Ex ice" on YouTube

Assalamualaikum kawan2 yg diingati selalu, sy dh ada instagram babypose nanti tinggal link, bole sy follow :)

Komunikasi & kerjasama / Communicate & Coorporate

English version below. Gracias :)
 

Assalamualaikum darling readers yang dikasihi,
 

Saya suka komen dalam facebook tentang Taska/Tadika. Tindakkan terbaik sebagai ibu iaitu berkomunikasi yang berkesan dapat menyelesaikan atau memberi faedah pada semua pihak iaitu guru, anak dan saya.

Masa pendaftaran di tadika, saya beritahu guru, bahawa anak saya jarang bergaul dengan kanak-kanak lain sebabnya dia ditinggal dirumah, melainkan ke rumah maktok dan tokwan. Itupun sepupunya pun dah besar.

Saya beritahu kalau anak saya main itu ini, lari sana sini, panjat turun tu bermakna dia hendakkan perhatian, sebab dia mahu diberi susu, roti, atau nak tengok kucing kalau dirumah., biasanya hendak main sesuatu yang baru. Guru memberi respons yang positif bahawa dia akan biarkan dulu dan bertanya apa dia mahu sebab ada kanak-kanak lebih memerhati sambil bermain-main dan perlahan-lahan akan turut serta dengan kanak-kanak lain. Jadi, saya kata oh ok, harapan sy menyenangkan pihak guru. Satu hari saya ternampak anak saya dia lebih menjadi guru dari ikut kanak-kanak lain duduk mendengar, anak saya berdiri seolah dia guru...Dalam pada tu saya bertanya ok ke teacher, teacher beritahu its ok kerana dia kanak-kanak yang paling muda dia seorang lelaki, dua kanak-kanak perempuan yang sama umurnya duduk jauh juga dari kanak-kanak lebih tua, teacher tunjukkan kedudukkan mereka dan oleh kerana mereka perempuan lebih memerhati(observe) dulu.

Saya rasa ibu-ibu di sana perlu beritahu apa kemahuan anak-anak kita pada guru atau pengasuh sebagai perkenalan supaya mereka lebih peka kelakuan kanak-kanak dan menyenangkan semua pihak.

niat, nyatakan, nikmat
salam mesra,
babY

3 foto  bawah : anak ditempat jurugambar 

Hi darling readers that are on my mind most,

I have been commentating in facebook regarding kindergarten/preschool. The best action to be taken is to let the teacher know a little bit of my kid. I told teacher that my kid is not enuf exposed with other kids unless when I bring him to grandys' house but the cousins are all grown up.

                                                                                                                         do outside the box


I told the teacher that if my kid run here and there, play this and that, hop in and out because he tries to get attention that he waits for us to ask him whether he wants milk, bread or to see the cat if hes at home. So the teacher's response was positive. She said she will ask then ask him to play as he likes, as she knows some kids are like that, play and yet observe other kids do and slow will join in. Then I just said oh ok, hope he will be fine with others. One day i saw my kid was standing as if hes a teacher and i asked teacher is it ok, she said not to worry coz, hes the youngest in school and his classmates are girls were sitting infront and observing too.

I hope all mothers communicate with the teacher to ease their task as well as ours becoz we need each other to make it work.

Intention, ilustratre, intuition
Fond regards,
babY

3 fotos : son at cameraman side 

dare to explore 

love for animal

                                                                                                    eat independently

 

tend to exercise / more approachable

 

kind to focus 

harga, hormat, harmoni

Assalamualaikum kawan-kawan yang disayangi,

 

Selepas menonton Celik Hati TV9 bertajuk "aku tidak sendiri" membawa saya untuk menulis dalam blog bahawa hidup saya dengan manusia terpaksa berperinsip,  "Menghargai perhubungan saya dengan manusia dan menghormati kedudukan mereka dan harta mereka sebagaimanapun, supaya hidup saya harmoni InshaAllah.

 

Biar berperinsip begini kerana Allah swt dan pasti niat dapat penghargaan Rasululullah saw dan manusia itu ibu tersayang dan ahli keluarga, kawan-kawan...

 

Melakukan penghargaan kepada ibu/majikan/pembeli kerana Allah swt untuk memanfaatkan manusia mendapatkan rezeki untuk keluarga. Penghargaan yang Ada, beri, dapat

 

tetapi Prof Dr Muhaya mengatakan hidup ini bukan untuk mendapatkan penghargaan drpda manusia .....tapi bertentangan dengan "aku tidak sendiri"  jadi prinsip Ada, beri, dapat, (ada penghargaan, berikan, kita dapat, harmonilah jadinya kerana mendapat penghargaan Allah swt, InshaaAllah.

 

Bagi saya beribadah kerana Allah taala, salah satunya memberi penghargaan kepada manusia, jika tidak dapat seperti diberi, berbalik kepada hati yang ikhlas kerana Allah swt dan ganjarannya pahala, heaven. Sememangnya hidup dengan manusia, memang tiada perkataan "delete" dalam hidup sebenar, bolehkah kita delete majikan? mesti ada solusi sebelum bertukar kerja, nanti jumpa majikan lain, baik berdoa majikan yang sedia ada berubah hati dan menghargai kita :)

 

Untuk remaja, Tenangkan fikiran dengan berdoa didalam hati, diantara waktu solat dan pada wanita waktu uzur, berdoa dalam hati supaya tenang dan ceria dan hati akan terlindung, InshaAllah dihargai.

 

I pray in the beginning, so that I have a beautiful ending.../ Saya berdoa pada permulaan, supaya saya dapat pengakhiran yang mulia dan cantik. Saya berdoa saya dapat habiskan kertas kerja saya esok Amin. Yang tidak disangkakan, saya masuk tidur pada pagi hari Jumaat yang indah sebab dah nak masuk pukul 12 lebih dah ni :)

 

feel, focus,fact
with love,
babY

 

foto - nikmati alam