Faiq said teacher is beautiful today

Pagi tadi Faiq disambut oleh ketua guru, biasa ucap good mowing tapi hari ni Faiq cakap "nice, pastu sambung you beautiful teacher. Teacher balas thank you, then gelak saya turut gelak.. Then kata bye, salam ke mana, terpegun la tu Faiq cikgu pakai punjabi suit. :)

Fadya at 1.4 years old enjoy feringghi beach

she with bibik murdipin at 1.5 years old on Melaka Straits ocean.

First magazine Faiq / Fadya

Bila berhenti kat caltex, bapa turun (sekarang ni parents bersama kami) nak beli majalah cars, mak pula beli majalah Lisa katanya ada lisa surihani, saya tak sempat nak baca lagi pun. Bila srmua menghadap rak majalah di situ, Faiq cakap "I want this" dia nak majalah upin ipin, kenapa pula, dia cakap "got Lion dance". Oh saya cakap yang tu pun noleh perasan. Fadya pula duk tengok majalah warna pink, seperti biasa tengok mainan pun yang warna pink je dah tarik keluar. Saya cakap letak dulu, nanti fikirkan dulu. Tengok-tengok bapa dah belikan untuk mereka. Asyik tunjuk je, dalam majalah tu, bawa ke sekolah juga.

When we stopped at caltex, dad got down to get Cars magazine, mom grab lisa's magazine because it has Lisa surihani in it. I have yet to read about it.
All of us just stared at magazines rack, Faiq said "i want this"  dia nak magazine upin and ipin, i asked why? He said it has Lion dance, then i see oh you can realised that. Fadya also eyeing one gor her, pink attracts her not the magazine, and she pulled it out, i said put it back, think it over first. But right after that i saw they holfing one each bought by dad. From then on they hold it and show around in favt faiq bring it to school.

Pink is more attractive.

held tight coz of lion head 

Brunch / Bekal

Hari ni Faiq bawa pisang dan weetameal biskut ke sekolah, seminggu sekali dia bawa ni. Suka dia dengan transformer lunch box..pagi tadi teacher yang sambut Faiq tu cerita faiq ni tulis tapi tak tekan. Dan teacher cakap dia bagi Faiq makan nasi lemak, biasa Faiq rasa dulu, baru makan sebab teacher suka dia makan dengan kawan-kawan. Saya cakap tentang penulisan tu nanti saya tulis tekan, harap dia ikut. InshaAllah.

I have prepared banana for Faiq's brunch. Once a week he brings this.  I supposed he loves his transformer brunch box.. This morning, teacher told me that Faiq writes now but not pressing it hard.. She said she even gives Faiq nasi lemak, first Faiq resists, then only eat after he tasted.
The I said ok I tried to write by pressing and hope he copies.

Memdoakan sejadah boleh terbang, Flying carpet.

Faiq at 2.8 years old. Menunggu

semasa menunggu masuk Isyak saya dan mak akan duduk atau mengaji. Kadang saya duduk sambil sembang-sembang inginkan sejadah boleh terbang. Pernah juga saya doakan ada orang-orang kecik keluar malam buatkan homeworks saya. Orang-orang kecik macam dalam cerita dongeng shoemaker and the elves.

Rasa best sangat masa tu sebab boleh minta macam-macam dalam doa.

Source: google.

while waiting for Isyak as magrib just an hour away, I would sit on my prayers mat would turn to flying carpet.

i also had prayed hard for elves like in the fairytale shoemaker and the elves to appear at night and do my homework.

Spiritual Relationship / berkaitan Kerohanian

dan ikutilah apa yang diwahyukan Tuhanmu kepadamu. Sesungguhnya Allah adalah Maha mengetahui apa yang kamu kerjakan.

dan bertawakkallah kepada Allah dan cukuplah Allah sebagai Pemelihara. Surah Al-Ahzab 33:2 - 33:3

Fadya at 11 months

Spiritual Relationship
33:2
But follow that which comes to you by inspiration from your Lord: for Allah is well acquainted with (all) that you do.
33:3
And put your trust in Allah, and enough is Allah as a Disposet of affairs.

Faiq at 11 months

This is not "contiang", this is alien

Alien pula yang disuka Faiq,  tok wan kata awat buku duk contiang, you must write, ni you contiang, contiang. Faiq datang dekat tok wan. Ni bukan contiang, ni Alien. Sedap bila dia cakap "this is not contiang, this is alien", tapi bila suruh nak filemkan dia pi kata "i told you", ja dan terus lari.

Faiq is into alien, when grandpa saw the book full if scratches, grandpa said why you doodling not writing? Faiq came near grandpa and said "This is not doodling, this is alien. Tried to film him in video but he said "I told you" and ran off.

Mak ber- Story

Semasa dalam perjalanan hantar Faiq, mak cerita Imam masjdil haram ada out riders/polis escort. Then bapa kata kereta ada berapa biji pun atas jalan. Mak kata bukan pasal jem pasal dia disanjung sebagai imam masjid mekah tu.

Mak sambung ada research yang throughout one day dimana sepanjang hari ada kedengaran azan bersambungan, saya tanya yaka, ha la dah azan waktu lain-lain jadi bersambungan dari negeri ke negara lain. Saya type ni terus tak sempat nak google lagi.

On the way sending Faiq, my mom told us that the Imam of Masjidil Haram has out riders escorting him. Then my dad said but theres not many cars on the road. My mom with high pitch said it means people there appreciate him as he is imam for madjid in mecca.

Mom continues that has been research that prayers calling azan is on throughout the day from one state to another has prayers times are varies in countries. That's amazing. It is just i could not hear but i know somewhere in earth that azan is being heard to others.

fadya at 1.2 years

Menarik minat / make it interesting

Dalam pukul 8:30 malam, saya akan letak buku atas meja kecil belum ada meja study untuk Faiq. Ingat lagi, bapa saya sediakan semua meja study untuk kami adik beradik. Bilik pun dia tukar ambil yang kecil, masterbed room bagi kami supaya selesa, katil, meja study, katil, meja study, macam asrama, rak buku semua sedia first bila saya mula pergi sekolah. Memang bapa seorang yang praktikal.

Berbalik dengan Faiq, saya pun sedia buku untuk saya sendiri, bergaya macam best menulis, terus dia kata "my turn" , "my turn". Baru lah selesai homework dia. Lalat pun nak guna dua kaler, hijau muda dan hijau tua.

Sejak berdoa semasa bancuh susu atau preparing makanan seperti mak saya nasihatkan, cikgu cakap Faiq dah ada minat mewarna, menulis dan pandai membaca Alhamdulillah.

About 8:30 pm, i put books of mine and Faiq's on a Small table, we have yet to get him a proper study desk for him. It Reminds me of my dad who got study desks for each of us. In facr he swap room with us, he gave us the masterbed Room and arrange it bed study desk alternately like a dormitory. And a books rack to keep tidy. He is a practical man.

Back to Faiq, after observing me doing writing, he said"My turn, my turn" excitedly. Then only the homework done. For the fly he chose two colors soft green and bright one. Alhamdulillah.

The teacher said he has intetested in coloring, writing and very good in reading. 

Guiding rules of life / Pedoman Hidup

Katakanlah: "Marilah ku bacakan apa yang diharamkan atas kamu oleh Tuhan itu, iaitu Janganlah kamu mempersekutukan sesuatu dengan Dia, berbuat baiklah terhadap kedua orang ibu bapa, dan janganlah kamu membunuh anak-anak kamu kerana takut kemiskinan. Kami akan memberi rezki kepadamu dan kepada mereka dan janganlah kamu mendekati perbuatan-perbuatan yang keji, baik yang nampak di antaranya mahupun yang tersembunyi, dan janganlah kamu membunuh jiwa yang diharamkan Allah (membunuhnya) melainkan dengan sesuatu (sebab) yang benar. Demikian itu yang diperintahkan oleh Tuhamu kepadamu supaya kamu memahaminya.  Surah Al An'Aam 6:151

Say : " Come, I will rehearse what Allah has (really)  prohibited you from". Join not anything as equal with Him; be good to your parents, kill not your children on a plea of want; -  We provide sustenance for you and for them - come not nigh to harmful deeds, whether open or secret,  take nor life, which Allah has made sacred, except by way of justice and law thus does He command you, that you may learn wisdom. Surah Al An'am.

By Abdullah Yusuf Ali

2011

Semasa di Restoran Serai, Empire bersama Faiq yang baru 1.2 tahun. Dan tengah expecting Fadya nak masuk 2 bulan. Sedap sangat makan terung goreng di sini.
During dinner at Serai Restaurant, Empire together with Faiq at the age of 1.2 years old. While child bearing of Fadya about 2 months. Missing the delicious fried binjal here.

Homework / Motorskil

Faiq tahu yang parents biasa menaip jarang menulis, jadi dia minta computer. Motorskil Faiq memegang mouse, menekan button kiri sambil menarik mouse ke atas dan bawah, nampak cekap.. Faiq masa 2 tahun lebih dah tahu screen, keyboard dan mouse. Belajar dari Siri TV Oliver, babyTV Astro.

Faiq wonders why he has to write after school then he asked for computer. His motorskill holding mouse while ptessing left button and pull from up and down. It seems thar strong grab he manages to make quite an abstract. He knows mouse, screen, keyboard, computer from Oliver of babytv, Astro.

Faiq at 3.9 years old holding mouse while focus on screen. (Sst in the photo) befote I let him type with colored fonts.

Sambil memegang mouse sambil fokus di screen, not bad.

Changi Airport, Singapore.

Sebenarnya, rancangan ke singapura dengan memandu, tapi sebahagian dari ahli keluarga ingin menaiki pesawat. Kami seangkatan rasa lebih senang.

Bersyukur kerana adik tolong belikan tiket walaupun dia mengadu nama kami semua panjang mengambil masa mengisi borang online. oleh itu dia buat dua kali tempahan di mana berpecah waktu  datu jam beza penerbangan. 

Dia beritahu jumlah kos untuk kami sekeluarga, besar juga jumlahnya kerana kami menaiki mas airline tapi dia ingin mengumpul Enrichnya, jadi kami bayar balik keseluruhan percutian ini.

English

Actually, we planned going to singapore by road. Since the main member of family prefered taking return flight. So the troop felt its better that way.

I am grateful that I have a brother helped us to purchased tickets though he complained that we have long names and took longer time for filling the forms. He made it  two batches that turned out we flew separately an hour gap.

He informed the whole cost for our family, quite a big amount as we took MH as he earned Enrich points. So I wss not sure the exact amount. But pay back for whole trip.

Bapa bawa kami adik beradik masa kami kecil Ke changi airport untuk lihat mercu tanda, reka bentuk airport yang canggih seperti sekarang sekolah2 buat lawatan ke klia atau klcc.

View from up

menunggy pun menyeronokkan.

faiq at 3.6 years old said I  "really" like aeroplane after we landed.

the excited one

Dinner at Muscat St, Singapore

Dalam foto, lokasi menunjukkan jalan Muscat. Seingat saya ternampak jalan Arab semasa turun dari van charted.

Kos makan malam di sini untuk 10 orang SD50. Saya pun minta tolong bapa bayarkan, tiada balance yang kembali dan tiada permintaan duit tambah, jadi lebih kurang jumlah tu di kedai mamak, bandar singapura.

As in the photo says location Muscat St, I thought I saw Arab St while I got from the chartered van. It is Indian Restaurant, it is mamak cafe. The cost it took for like 10 people was about SD50. I was not sure but I gave to my dad the money as need his help get to the counter.

Beri satu sebab / give me a reason

Kita boleh belajar bencinta lagi

Si isteri
Pada mula-mula lagi kau seorang pencuri
yang mencuri hati ini
sememangnya aku yang rela menjadi mangsa
Membiarkan kau lihat sebahagian diri ini
yang serba kekurangan
dan dengan sentuhanmu telah memyempurnakan

sekarang kau bercakap dalam tidur
benda-benda yang tak pernah diperkatakan
Terus-tetangla yang kau dah rasa cukup
dengan cintaku, cinta kita

Berilah satu sebab
beri sedikit pun mencukupi
kerana sesaat pun kita tidak berpatah hati tapi hanya terguris
Dan kita boleh belajar bercinta lagi
ada di bintang
dan tertulis di parut luka di hati
Tidak berpatah hati tapi hanya terguris
dan kita boleh berlajar bercinta lagi

si suami jawab
maaf aku tidak memahami
Dari mana la semua ni datang
aku fikir yang semua menyenangkan

Si wanita bersampuk (oh kita ada segalanya)

Si suami
kepala kau yang bermain mimpi liar
sayang,  kita masih ada setiap satu
Sekarang atas apa kau fikirkan

si wife (tapi ini yang berlaku)

Si suami
Kau menghadapi mimpi ngeri
kau biasa baring di sisiku
sekarang cuma cadar kosong diantara
cinta kita,

Si wife
Buang yang keruh lagi berkarat
Aku akan perbaiki demi kita
Lagi memikir lagi menyemakkan
Sememangnya cinta kita sudah mencukupi
kau pegangnya dan
kau yang membuat keputusan
tiada apa yang lebih teruk dari yang digambarkan
Kita kembali bersih :)

Jom belajar bercinta lagi. Penyanyi Pink pun nak berubah:)

sila dengar lagu give me a reason si suami sangat cool :)


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pgEFfZOV9GQ




Just Give Me A Reason"
(feat. Nate Ruess)

Right from the start
You were a thief
You stole my heart
And I your willing victim
I let you see the parts of me
That weren't all that pretty
And with every touch you fixed them

Now you've been talking in your sleep, oh, oh
Things you never say to me, oh, oh
Tell me that you've had enough
Of our love, our love

Just give me a reason
Just a little bit's enough
Just a second we're not broken just bent
And we can learn to love again
It's in the stars
It's been written in the scars on our hearts
We're not broken just bent
And we can learn to love again

I'm sorry I don't understand
Where all of this is coming from
I thought that we were fine
(Oh, we had everything)
Your head is running wild again
My dear we still have everythin'
And it's all in your mind
(Yeah, but this is happenin')

You've been havin' real bad dreams, oh, oh
You used to lie so close to me, oh, oh
There's nothing more than empty sheets
Between our love, our love
Oh, our love, our love

Just give me a reason
Just a little bit's enough
Just a second we're not broken just bent
And we can learn to love again
I never stopped
You're still written in the scars on my heart
You're not broken just bent
And we can learn to love again

Oh, tear ducts and rust
I'll fix it for us
We're collecting dust
But our love's enough
You're holding it in
You're pouring a drink
No nothing is as bad as it seems
We'll come clean

Romantik?

Patutla, bila saya dan suami keluar berdua, tiba suami cakap, best kita dating ni. Saya rasa terkejut aik selama ni tak best ke keluar.. Rupa-rupanya budak-budak tinggal kat rumah. Memang lega kalau budak-budak tak ikut sebab Faiq tak duduk atas baby seat lagi, si adik tiru. Hmm. Tengok foto-foto kat bawah tu pun dah tahu en suami sangat lega.

English version here. 

No wonder , all of sudden hubby said it is nice to go out just the two of us. At once I was thinking, weren't we had best together before. Then i realise the kids didn't come along. It is quite a quiet time since Faiq is no longer seat in baby seat if it not long distance and the sister just copy cat. As in the photos below will know that is an escapism for him.

At bonjour dataran kota damansara Captured by my nephew

D'naina Kota Damandara Captured by me

Nasi kandar kayu kita damansara captured by my nephew 

bit bout him/ skit tentang faiq

 

 Faiq at 3 years old 1 month.

Sekarang petang-petang, Faiq suka tanya mama what's the plan? Mama akan jawab, pukul 6:00 petang, Faiq mandi, bila papa balik kita dinner, solat/mengaji, lepas tu buat sedikit penulisan/bacaan atau mewarna ok. Lepas tu  tido :)

English version - 

Now in the evening, Faiq likes to ask what's the plan mama? I would answer at 6:00 pm, you shower,  when papa's home we have dinner, pray/ngaji then we do some writing/reading or coloring ok.. Then sleep.

Location : Admiral Marina & Leisure Club.

Wake up shayang..

Jom Fadya, hantar Faiq ke sekolah

Lets send Faiq to school sayang

Tak nak flash *

Jom senam bahu ke belakang / Backbend work out

1. Berdiri tegak, bahu ke belakang, perut kempis ke dalam seperti menolong tulang belakang menegak, dada ke depan untuk lebih bergerak semasa bernafas. Tarik nafas,  hidu mendalam, mulut tutup, lepas nafas perlahan-lahan. (maaf  tiada foto tapi seakan seperti foto no.1 meniarap tapi berdiri)

2. Bila di rumah boleh cuba, meniarap di lantai beralas kain atau atau tuala, rehat muka di sebelah pipi kiri atau kanan. Dan rehat dada di lantai, angkat tangan ke belakang dan genggam dua belah tangan,  meluruskan dua2 tangan ke atas. Selepas itu bole cuba mengangkat kaki dan tangan memengang perhelangan kaki. Lebih mendada. 

3. Melutut, tangan cuba memegang pergelangan kaki atau tumit, pastikan bahu selari dengan tumit.

Faedahnya : Memberi ruang yang lebih pada paru-paru .  Lebih mudah bernafas dan mendapat lebih oksigen di kerangka. Merehatkan minda. Lebih rengangan di tangan kaki, peha, menjadi kulit lebih pejal. Akan menukar tabiat berdiri lebik tegak selepas senaman ini.

English version here :

1. Stand upright,  shoulders stretch back, chest forward, tummy vacuum in as if trying to straighten the spine. Breathe deep like smell roses, mouth closed, exhale slowly. (Like in th photo number 1, but stand position)

2. When at home, can lie flat on tummy, chest slightly up, two hands join from the back,  straighten the hands up, chest forward.

3. Another position, kneel backbend, on the knees, hands secure at the ankles, head face up..

Benefits: lung expansion, easy breathing, more relaxing,  prone to stand straight after practice.

See photo from bottom :)
 Maaf aturan gambar dari bawah :)
 3. Melutut,  badan ke blakang, posisi bahu selari tumit kaki, tangan  menogkatnya, dongak muka ke atas perlahan. Nafas

2. Meniarap memegang kedua belah kaki

1.on tummy thigh down

foto dari buku

persepsi berlainan

Bila terbaca komen blogger Lydsunshine tu saya ingin terangkan kenapa saya buat dwi bahasa. Saya rasa semua boleh agak untuk latihkan minda supaya menambahkan vocab dan lebih memahami bahasa kedua. 

Lagipun masa saya bekerja dengan syarikat oil and gas,  saya berjumpa dengan ramai principals manufacturer dari luar negara. Berbahasa inggeris untuk dokumen, tentang harga barang atau untuk urusan pejabat boleh la berinteraksi... tapi bila sekali sekala pergi lunch, sembang tentang general dah kalut cari ayat. 

Merekai menyoalkan tentang agama secara sindiran  seolah pilihan agama disebabkan tertekan dengan peraturan negara, atau sebab parents dah Islam, anak terpaksa ikut.

Saya terangkan, kalau parents tak muslim pun, saya akan pilih Tuhan yang tidak menyerupai apa-apa yang pernah dilihat atau yang boleh dibuat sendiri seperti dengan tanah liat. Sebenarnya saya ada memberi contoh masa perbualan tu.

Rasa tak logik kalau tak da Tuhan nak kira semua semulajadi, kepada siapa la nak diminta tolong  jika ditinggal seorang diri.  Susah juga nak explain pada orang tiada Tuhan dari yang ada agama lain. Tuhan segalanya, ada Tuhan sudah mencukupi.

Mereka mengatakan yang mereka buat kerana nereka baik bukan kerana ganjaran (pahala), kalau nak berbahas kenapa mereka ambil gaji bila membeti pengetahuan mereka hmm...tak tahu la

Lagipun agama Islam, jika menjadi warak masih boleh mengisi permintaan naluri atau nafsu, kalau agama lain terpaksa bertahan seperti agama lain tak bole berkahwin dan tidak berkeluarga. 

Mereka ada cakap saya ni bole baca Al-Quran dengan tak faham apa-apa, tah ke tulis apa dalam tu,. Saya mengaku betul tak faham tapi mukjizat surah menenangkan diri dan minda dan rasa selamat yang ttak dapat gambarkan dan takkan sama perasaan dengan membaca tafsirnya.

Harga minyak naik kerana kita masih bergantung dari produk mereka ni. Kereta buatan sendiri dah ada, harap mesin analisa mesin di pelantar semua nanti kita buat sendiri pula. Waulupun faktor kecil, malaysia ni bumi Allah , sesiapa pun boleh mencari rezeki di sini. InshaAllah.

english version below

 

When I saw the blogger Lydsunshine;s comment, I wanted to clarify a bit why I chose two languages, I guess everyone would know because to practice mind to think in the languages and also to improve in vocab as well.

Moreover, I had worked in an oil and gas company before, had experienced a hard time to figure what words to explain better. It was easy to interact on office matters, on prices of items but once in awhile discussing general rules during lunch with foreigners manufacturers' principals, I felt I wanted to explain and didn't want to shut down especially on my religion when they said that malaysians are tensed without freedom on believe wise. As seem I am what I am because of parents are.

That's when I had explained, even though the parents are not, I would choose the one that is I never seen that my feel its right or something that not I craft or carve it. To whom should I call for help if I am left alone, while in oversea the only to survive is to the One, actually it is harder to explain to the non-believers. 

They stated when they do something good because they are honest and because they are good not because they being bribe to be one. Like deeds. If I were to debate why then they exchanged their expertise to money (salary). Its better to shut down before it boiled up.

As it in my religion, being pious is the ultimate aim but it didn't suppress me to not have family and to get married.

They said I read Quran without understanding the meaning, I agreed but it soothe the soul, calm the mind and it shoo away the worries.

Physical excercise sebahagian dari diri

Salam Jumaat, Semalam telefon mak, saja tanya khabar. Mak cakap kakak datang ambil dia dan bapa, nak bawa derang ke tempat physio therapy, tapi rasa tak jadi sebab tutup atau dah lewat. Tapi saya rasa ketinggalan pulak bila mak bagitau kakak ambik dia pun sebab dia baru balik gym yang berdekatan dengan umah mak tu...oh mana aci saya terfikir untuk diri ni yang dah lama tak bersenam. Jeles. Sememangnya saya suka fokus pada diri dulu sebab bersyukur pun kita diri yang dipinjam olehNya la yang kita mahu jaga kan
baru boleh jaga orang lain. Nak senam lepas ni, rengangan yang penting untuk peredaran darah. Berenang pun boleh juga, tapi kesian kat jangtung sebab terpaksa mengempam lebih. Kalau senam yoga atau pilates, take time to nafas, rengang, pastu relax :)

English version
Yesterday, called mom just to say hello. She said my sister came and pick her and dad, supposedly they are going to physotherapy centre, I couldn't here or catch what she said, but I heard it was closed. Then they went somewhere else, but she told that my sister came have her gym class that is really triggered me and awaked me that I did not do physical work out anymore, that is not nice. I do not feel me. To start everything even love is to love myself and focus on my self but neglected it somehow. Guess right after I want to do stretch and feel the different and a bit positive twists. Though swimming is good too, but pity to heart that needs to pump more but with stretching is more open the lung and breathe for better blood circulation, then relaxing slow breathing :)

Expresi mak iphone / bapa check in

English version below

 Expresi mak saya 

Kami sekeluarga menghadir satu majlis di mana ada beberapa speech tentang kewujudan sesuatu seperti kalau tak de zuckerberg tak ade facebook, tak de steve job tak de iphone, tak de ingva tak de ikea, lepas tu mak saya menyambung bahawa tak de ibu tak de la anak-anak yang memeriah majlis tu :)

Emak saya sangat suka lagu mother dimana liriknya "kepada siapa Kasih sayang, penghormatan kita patut diberi selepas Allah dan Nabi Muhammad saw,; ialah kepada ibu. Jadi dia lega tak perlu mengingati anak2nya dengan adanya lagu tu.

Expresi bapa

Bapa sememangnya happy bila salah seorang anaknya mempunyai rumah dekat klcc. Dia sembang-sembang dengan anak-anak saudaranya. Respons anak-anak saudaranya sangat   prnuh minat

begini "Bila lagi Pak Long nak jemput kami, kami tak sabar nak check in, tempat best macam tu baru best nak check in ni, tak payah susah, kami masak untuk pak long," Paklong pun tanya saya,,check in hotel, saya cakap check in kat hanphone, bagitau depa dah sampai situ :)

English vetsion

Mom's expression

We family attended one function the speech made by member of family, they mentioned the existence of modern world like there is no facebook if there is no zuckerberg, there is no iphone if there is no iphone, there is no ikea if there no ingvar, my mom simply continues there Ibu (mother) there are no her kids to make the function successful, it seems she wanted to be mentioned too. She love the song of mother where the lyrics day "eho should i givr my lovr snd respect afyrr Allah and Rasulullah, whos next? Mother.

With the song she no need to remind her kids already.

dad's expression

It seems that my dad is happy that one of his children has a place near klcc.

So he just small talk to his nieces about it, this is their response 

"Pak long,, so when are you inviting us, ee are excited to check in, that is the best place to check in. Pak long no need to treat us but ee go and cook for you pak long, we cant wait to checkin, then my dad turned and ask check in hotel? I said check in at the phone to mark that they have been there :)

Mak, Did I grow up according to plan?

 english version below

Lepas nafas panjang ja lepas hantar Faiq ni, dalam hati tertanya bagaimana la mak saya hantar saya ke sekolah, adakah mudah (ceh wah tak guna perkataan negatif iaitu "susah" :))

Hari ini teacher tanya saya adakah saya nampak perbezaan tak, dimana Faiq lebih senang turun dari kereta dan lebih happy, saya pun cuma bertanya balik kenapa sebabnya, tak boleh nak fikir sangat sebab berzikir je so that semua smooth.. Teacher sambung cerita sebab "the kid" tu tak hadir sekolah dah beberapa hari dah. Sejak saya cakap tak perlu berbincang dengan ketua guru. Teacher yang sambut Faiq ni cakap dia dah jumpa ketua guru. Ketua guru cakap Faiq sorang je yang nak kawan dengan the kid (mesti thrill budak ni terlantas dalam hati). Tapi saya terus cakap saya harap Faiq bermain depan mata guru-guru, dan bersyukur semua guru-guru pun aware tahu the kid tu macam tu. Yang tu penting boleh la tolong tengok-tengok, Faiq pun kena la sentiasa di pesan oleh saya, dan harap teacher pun buat demikian. you have long way to go Faiq, i pray okay.

Begitu juga saya sentiasa meminta mak mendoakan saya sentiasa bahagia dunia akhirat.

 faiq dalam hotel seri pengantin, janda baik, mama attend seerah Rasul saw 2013

english version

"I exhale and thankful but crossed in mind how mom took me to school whether it was easy or otherwise (just to use positive word here instead of negative like "hard" :))

The teacher asked whether I see any different today and know why that Faiq is happy and excited today. I asked why as in my heart I prayed hard to make the morning as easy as can be but  the teacher said because the "kid" did not come yesterday and told me that they talked to the headteacher and she said nobody wants to play with the kid but Faiq is kind of friendly with him.
I continue about the matter just to kill two birds with one stone or to have a matter solved by saying again to the teacher, I told Faiq to play near and around the teacher as the teacher could see him and observe him amongst the kids.I thankful that the matter has taken in good hand and there awareness about it.

Night Safari

Night safari, Singapore

Ticket : S$15 - S$20 - sorry tak berapa sure  harga tiket sebab kakak tersayang yang sponsor.  Alhamdulillah.

Taxi fare from Hotel Royal Scott at Orchard Road  to Night Safari - Sorry tak perasan juga sebab di belanja oleh kakak tersayang.

Nanti dinner after night safari boleh cerita cost berapa sebab kami sponsor :)

Run for your life

you snap me

relief - lega

english version below  

Assalamualaikum, 

Lega bila dapat tahu yang Faiq lebih suka respons yang cepat. Bila dia bagitau sesuatu atau mahu sesuatu, tengah main ke saya pasti response atau express dengan emosi teruja.

Tapi bila dia pegang gunting, dengan cepat saya ambil gunting tu tapi mulut perlahan-lahan bagitau dia yang gunting tajam kena simpan dulu. Bila besar boleh guna. (susah juga nak keep calm ni)

Saya tunjuk emosi teruja atau bersama-sama main bila Faiq bermain tetapi bertenang bila dia main yang merbahaya, supaya dia tidak rasa "thrilled" untuk ulangi lagi.

Memang menjadi kebiasaan bila nampak yang tak elok nak cepat response tunjuk marah atau tinggi suara, jadi Faiq jadi lebih thrilled, saya tahu ini sebab dia suka tunjuk tempat dia lukis di dinding masa dia belum satu tahun lagi. Masa tu saya cepat bagi dia kertas untuk di tulis. Bila dia tunjuk lagi saya cakap kalau nak tulis kena atas kertas ok. Dia boleh rasa ada kommunikasi di situ,

Bila dia gaduh pun saya, tarik Fadya atau Faiq dan cakap kena jaga adik, atau bagi abang main dulu. Jadi bila ton suara biasa, mereka rasa relax..tapi Fadya memang bila gaduh gigit tangan abangnya. Jadi saya buat tak terkejut, Faiq pun ingat biasa. Saya cakap Fadya gigi untuk gigit food. (Dalam hati nak juga pukul ke tapi depan Faiq, so hold dulu) Tapi nampak keberkesanan yang Faiq tak cari-cari screwdriver atau plyer atau attention lagi, Fadya pun ingat gigit ni Faiq tak rasa sakit kut. Bila mereka datang saya lebih mendengar dan memberi respons. Pastu main-main sekali. Tapi ni baru pratikkan beberapa bulan je::)  Setakat ni rasanya perpatah "lagi marah lagi buat tu" macam betul, jadi lebih baik cakap dengan ton memberitahu apa yang patut mereka lakukan.

english version

Relief when I realised that Faiq prefers quick response from me. When he tells something or want something I must show some reaction or excitement like how I can abruptly got angry to something

But I have to keep calm when he did something not nice because it does not excite him when he sees me that I am calmed and say this is not nice not prolong the anger, no thrill for him to do it again.

When they fight also, Id be calmed and slow talk with Faiq that he needs to take care of his sister, and for Fadya I say she must learn to play with Faiq. Sometime Fadya bites Faiq, but I pulled Fadya I said your teeth is for food, but my reaction to Fadya not so bad, then Faiq feels it okay I guess. I think Fadya don't bite any more because she thinks it did give any effect. Faiq also dont search for screw driver and all because i give him to play for awhile then i said must keep it. Not sure about this practice as how it would lasts though this is I already practice for just few months.

See :)

Pens in hands

message to observe / pemerhatian dan doa

English version below

Pada mula Faiq happy nak ke sekolah tetapi bila sampai dia menjadi sebaliknya. Jadi saya bertanya kepada guru,"macam mana ni" dengan tone seperti ingin dapatkan solusi untuk situasi ni.

Dan saya sambung, Faiq senang bangun dan bersiap pagi ni. Dia ambik breakfast lagi. Baru cikgu pandang saya penuh ambil berat. Dengan cepat saya kata ok cikgu ambil beg dia saya bawa dia ke pintu, sebab saya pun tak mahu berbincang dengan cikgu depan dia.

Lepas Faiq masuk dalam, cikgu suruh saya jumpa dengan ketua guru, saya cakap Faiq ok, inshaAllah.

Beberapa saat kemudian, tiga orang guru datang ke kereta saya, guru yang berlainan kelas menyampaikan cerita yang Faiq kena tolak dengan seorang budak dimana ibunya juga sangat mengganggu ketenteraman sekolah, sambung guru-mengadu pada saya. Mereka menyuruh saya berjumpa ketua guru.

Saya rasa tak perlu, yang penting saya akan pesan pada Faiq selalu mendekati guru-guru apabila;.l bermain, sentiasa bersama guru bila pergi mana pun. Yang sebenarnya menyampaikan mesej ni pada guru-guru juga. Ini satu cara menyenangkan guru memerhati Faiq.

Salah satu guru memberitahu lagi yang dia masih risau dengan murid tu, jadi saya cakap saya berdoa dulu, salah seorang guru pun sambut aha doa dulu sambil senyu, saya sambung pula lagipun Faiq yang berumur 3 tahun ni ada guru-guru yang caring dan saya beritahu mereka saya akan pesan pada Faiq yang guru dia akan lindungi dia dan dia juga akan ikut bermain di mana guru berada sahaja supaya senang guru memantau.

Salah seorang juga mengatakan bahawa Faiq pandai dan dah tahu apa yang diajar, dalam hati saya bersyukur pada Pencipta.


English version

Sunday, 20 October 2013

The morning start was smooth but at school Faiq showed reluctancy. I asked the teacher "how" like sharing the matter with her, what she would know the solution. I told may be Faiq's bored of getting in the car because we have been road travelling since he was born yet he still follow this morning.

It was easy to get him dressed this morning I told her. He even had breakfast. Then the teacher looked concerned. I told her it is okay and spontaneously asked her to help me pick Faiq's bag up as I get him to the door by force, because when I prolong talking infront of him, then I do not how that would affect him.

At the door, another teacher welcmed him, I leave him there and went down straight to car, then the teacher told me to talk to his class teacher. I said to her never mind as he is fine, Godwill.

But three of them, the teachers of different classes came at my car window and told stories, that a trouble maker kid disturbs the class, Faiq being pushed by him, the mother complained about the teachers and about her son was not taken care of and infact warned them would make a police report if never change.

They asked me to talk to the headmitress, I said I pray first and will speak to Faiq to play around teachers and be near teacher always because he is a small, the teacher will protect him.

And i looked at his class teacher and asking her supports because Faiq's 3 year old and this is his journey that is he is lucky enough to face it with caring and loving teachers around that I am grateful for, I told them.

The teacher said Faiq is clever and knows most everything whats being taught. In the heart I thank to the Creator.

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The best painting adalah dari tingkap yang terbuka

english version below

Tingkap atau sliding door terbuka tanpa ditutupi oleh kain langsir yang tebal menjadi kegemaran. Tingkap terbuka seolah sebuah frame gambar yang hidup untuk interior rumah. Permandangan yang segar walaupun kecil, sesetengah tingkap terlindung dengan pagar konkrete tetapi masih tetap nampak langit atau pokok atau rumput yang hijau.

"Tingkap yang tidak dilindungi oleh perabut atau langsir adalah penghubung dunia luar dengan suasana dalam rumah".

 Saya bersyukur dengan ada tingkap yang tidak terlindung dengan langsir atau perabut (kerusi). Dengan membuka tingkap saya dapat merasai cahaya matahari, udara segar, kelihatan burung-burung.  Langsir yang  lembut yang simple hanya untuk menutup di waktu malam.

english version

My love of the windows or sliding doors exists when I appreciate nature, natural light, outdoor more than a nice fancy curtain or concrete to block me from the world outside.

"I rather not putting any curtains at the window just to have view which I call it a live painting". 

As for my home I used the thin and light material for curtain, I let them open but for the ground level, I choose the thicker one but during day time I would open them off, to make the green from out to be part of my interior. From there the fresh air came in, the green nature can be seen, the least you can see is the blue sky or clouds floating, that is lively.

Breeze,
Fair

Green for fresh air / Hijau yang menyegarkan

English version below



Masih ada pro dan con pokok dalam rumah tetapi sekurangnya memberi kesegaran untuk mata memandangnya.. botol atau jar kaca diguna balik untuk menjadi pasu kecil, jika di lebihkan batu-batu kecil, boleh memberi laluan cahaya mencerahkan ruang rumah.

Yang perlu selepas batu-batu kecil dimasukkan, tanah compost pula di masukkan dan seterusnya pokok hijau kegemaran anda seperti kaktus, pokok menjelar duit-duit, yang penting yang kurang memerlukan air dan cahaya matahari.

Barang-barangnya
1.botol atau jar kaca yang ksong (biasanya yang dari botol jam atau sos sprgeti)
2.tanah kompost
3.batu-batu kecil
4.Pokok hijau kegemaran anda.

Dalam gambar adalah versi tanah penuh



English version

Still have pro and con indoor plants but at least the look of it gives fresh to the eyes. The recycle jar filled with small pebbles at the bottom then filled with only compost soil, snd ready to plant your favourite green plant, best are like cactus or money plant that is easy to grow with less watering and less sunlight.

The good things about the glass jar as a pot is it gives more sunlight  or see thru if the pebbles are added more.

Things are needed
1. Empty jar ( it could be jar that are for jam or speghetti sauce)
2. Compost soil
3. Pebbles
4. Your favourite green plant


In the photo is the full soil version.