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March 24, 2013

Nak kawin/wanna get married


English version below



Selepas khatam Al-Quran beberapa kali bolehlah kahwin. Seelok-eloknya zaman sekarang lepas degree dah kerja,  register tabung haji. Lega nak fikirkan tentang kahwin.

Saya sangat bersyukur kerana kawan perempuan saya sendiri yang ingatkan saya supaya fokus bila nak kahwin. Memberi kesedaran untuk saya betul-betul hendak berkawin. Jadi dari situ saya selalu keluar ayat "dah nak kawin" mcm tu ja . Dalam hati saya fikirkan tentang lelaki yg terbaik. Lelaki yg terbaik lelaki yang sy sayang itu yang penting. Seingat saya mcm tu ja. Fikir dan doa..bagitau ibu, pastu ibu kata biar Allah aturkan.
Dalam hati saya fokus "macam dah kawin, pergi kerja pagi2, ibu check minyak hitam semua walaupun kereta baru. Then saya off radio and zikir. Dalam fikiran. Bayang dah kahwin hehe. Bila dapat call dari kawan lelaki/kawan perempuan ajak keluar saya cakap saya sibuk saya mcm dah kawin hehe...

Dari situ la saya bertemu suami .bila dia ajak keluar saya cakap saya nak keluar dgn dia tapi saya tak boleh  tapi nak sgt. Jadi suami cari solusi utk kawin. Alhamdulillah...kalau tidak ibu la masih check minyak hitam lagi agaknya... :) ibu pun tak layan kawan2 lelaki yg sy cerita kalau yg nak datang merisik baru dia buat-buat dengar :) Dia tak nak bersubahat. Jadi kami terus akad nikah.

Love,liase,lasts

After reciting Al-Quran. By right after degree, ss well register for haj. Then its fun to think of marriage.
Im grateful hving a girlfriend who reminded to focus on marriage when i really want it. Gives me awareness to focus and tell people know that i am getting married eventhough the person is in my imagination. The best husband that i love. When told my mom, she said all in Allah's hand.

In my heart i feel already married. Going to work in the morning after mom check the engine oil though its a new car. I drive with radio off so that i can cite prayers a bit. When girlfriends or boyfriends call i said im busy as if im married hehe.
From there i have met my beloved husband. When he asked me out i said i want but i cant hehe... he find the solution to meet my family by asking me to get married hehe..mom ignore about guys unless for marriage as she didnt want to get involved. So we get married.

Cinta,cakap,capai
Salam sayang dari,
babY

PHOTO : my son with his furry friend

7 comments:

  1. salam kenal dear...ai singgah sini dan follow you... ^_^ thanks for dropping by...

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  2. saya dulu pun macam tu... bila kenal hubby, dia terus hanatar rombongan meminang... bercinta lepas kawin :)

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  3. W'salam ...Elok kita kahwin dan jaukan diri dari maksiat. Betul tak?

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  4. bagus mcm tu kan. dah sedia tu kwen jea terus.

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  5. seronoknya kawin.. bila la turn anna lak ek..

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  6. betul babY, saya dulu pun bercinta setelah berkahwin... :)

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