Faiq said teacher is beautiful today

Pagi tadi Faiq disambut oleh ketua guru, biasa ucap good mowing tapi hari ni Faiq cakap "nice, pastu sambung you beautiful teacher. Teacher balas thank you, then gelak saya turut gelak.. Then kata bye, salam ke mana, terpegun la tu Faiq cikgu pakai punjabi suit. :)

Fadya at 1.4 years old enjoy feringghi beach

she with bibik murdipin at 1.5 years old on Melaka Straits ocean.

First magazine Faiq / Fadya

Bila berhenti kat caltex, bapa turun (sekarang ni parents bersama kami) nak beli majalah cars, mak pula beli majalah Lisa katanya ada lisa surihani, saya tak sempat nak baca lagi pun. Bila srmua menghadap rak majalah di situ, Faiq cakap "I want this" dia nak majalah upin ipin, kenapa pula, dia cakap "got Lion dance". Oh saya cakap yang tu pun noleh perasan. Fadya pula duk tengok majalah warna pink, seperti biasa tengok mainan pun yang warna pink je dah tarik keluar. Saya cakap letak dulu, nanti fikirkan dulu. Tengok-tengok bapa dah belikan untuk mereka. Asyik tunjuk je, dalam majalah tu, bawa ke sekolah juga.

When we stopped at caltex, dad got down to get Cars magazine, mom grab lisa's magazine because it has Lisa surihani in it. I have yet to read about it.
All of us just stared at magazines rack, Faiq said "i want this"  dia nak magazine upin and ipin, i asked why? He said it has Lion dance, then i see oh you can realised that. Fadya also eyeing one gor her, pink attracts her not the magazine, and she pulled it out, i said put it back, think it over first. But right after that i saw they holfing one each bought by dad. From then on they hold it and show around in favt faiq bring it to school.

Pink is more attractive.

held tight coz of lion head 

Spiritual Relationship / berkaitan Kerohanian

dan ikutilah apa yang diwahyukan Tuhanmu kepadamu. Sesungguhnya Allah adalah Maha mengetahui apa yang kamu kerjakan.

dan bertawakkallah kepada Allah dan cukuplah Allah sebagai Pemelihara. Surah Al-Ahzab 33:2 - 33:3

Fadya at 11 months

Spiritual Relationship
33:2
But follow that which comes to you by inspiration from your Lord: for Allah is well acquainted with (all) that you do.
33:3
And put your trust in Allah, and enough is Allah as a Disposet of affairs.

Faiq at 11 months

Romantik?

Patutla, bila saya dan suami keluar berdua, tiba suami cakap, best kita dating ni. Saya rasa terkejut aik selama ni tak best ke keluar.. Rupa-rupanya budak-budak tinggal kat rumah. Memang lega kalau budak-budak tak ikut sebab Faiq tak duduk atas baby seat lagi, si adik tiru. Hmm. Tengok foto-foto kat bawah tu pun dah tahu en suami sangat lega.

English version here. 

No wonder , all of sudden hubby said it is nice to go out just the two of us. At once I was thinking, weren't we had best together before. Then i realise the kids didn't come along. It is quite a quiet time since Faiq is no longer seat in baby seat if it not long distance and the sister just copy cat. As in the photos below will know that is an escapism for him.

At bonjour dataran kota damansara Captured by my nephew

D'naina Kota Damandara Captured by me

Nasi kandar kayu kita damansara captured by my nephew 

Komunikasi & kerjasama / Communicate & Coorporate

English version below. Gracias :)
 

Assalamualaikum darling readers yang dikasihi,
 

Saya suka komen dalam facebook tentang Taska/Tadika. Tindakkan terbaik sebagai ibu iaitu berkomunikasi yang berkesan dapat menyelesaikan atau memberi faedah pada semua pihak iaitu guru, anak dan saya.

Masa pendaftaran di tadika, saya beritahu guru, bahawa anak saya jarang bergaul dengan kanak-kanak lain sebabnya dia ditinggal dirumah, melainkan ke rumah maktok dan tokwan. Itupun sepupunya pun dah besar.

Saya beritahu kalau anak saya main itu ini, lari sana sini, panjat turun tu bermakna dia hendakkan perhatian, sebab dia mahu diberi susu, roti, atau nak tengok kucing kalau dirumah., biasanya hendak main sesuatu yang baru. Guru memberi respons yang positif bahawa dia akan biarkan dulu dan bertanya apa dia mahu sebab ada kanak-kanak lebih memerhati sambil bermain-main dan perlahan-lahan akan turut serta dengan kanak-kanak lain. Jadi, saya kata oh ok, harapan sy menyenangkan pihak guru. Satu hari saya ternampak anak saya dia lebih menjadi guru dari ikut kanak-kanak lain duduk mendengar, anak saya berdiri seolah dia guru...Dalam pada tu saya bertanya ok ke teacher, teacher beritahu its ok kerana dia kanak-kanak yang paling muda dia seorang lelaki, dua kanak-kanak perempuan yang sama umurnya duduk jauh juga dari kanak-kanak lebih tua, teacher tunjukkan kedudukkan mereka dan oleh kerana mereka perempuan lebih memerhati(observe) dulu.

Saya rasa ibu-ibu di sana perlu beritahu apa kemahuan anak-anak kita pada guru atau pengasuh sebagai perkenalan supaya mereka lebih peka kelakuan kanak-kanak dan menyenangkan semua pihak.

niat, nyatakan, nikmat
salam mesra,
babY

3 foto  bawah : anak ditempat jurugambar 

Hi darling readers that are on my mind most,

I have been commentating in facebook regarding kindergarten/preschool. The best action to be taken is to let the teacher know a little bit of my kid. I told teacher that my kid is not enuf exposed with other kids unless when I bring him to grandys' house but the cousins are all grown up.

                                                                                                                         do outside the box


I told the teacher that if my kid run here and there, play this and that, hop in and out because he tries to get attention that he waits for us to ask him whether he wants milk, bread or to see the cat if hes at home. So the teacher's response was positive. She said she will ask then ask him to play as he likes, as she knows some kids are like that, play and yet observe other kids do and slow will join in. Then I just said oh ok, hope he will be fine with others. One day i saw my kid was standing as if hes a teacher and i asked teacher is it ok, she said not to worry coz, hes the youngest in school and his classmates are girls were sitting infront and observing too.

I hope all mothers communicate with the teacher to ease their task as well as ours becoz we need each other to make it work.

Intention, ilustratre, intuition
Fond regards,
babY

3 fotos : son at cameraman side 

dare to explore 

love for animal

                                                                                                    eat independently

 

tend to exercise / more approachable

 

kind to focus 

Fix yourself/ baiki diri

english version below

Assalamualaikum kawan-kawan yang dikasihi,

Jika saya tidak di blog, biasanya saya di Facebook, saya memang mengikuti child expert coach. Cara yang penyayang mengatasi anak-anak kecil.

Dalam satu status postnya mengatakan bahawa "Jika anak takutkan air bukan kerana dia tiada konfiden tetapi kerana dia masih menganalisa keadaan dan masih memerhati untuk mencebur diri"

Jadi saya teringat bahawa masa saya kecil dalam 6 tahun macam tu, emak saya menari cha cha, saya rasa tiada konfiden untuk mencuba steps tu, mungkin rasa segan sama, tapi dalam hati terlintas "its ok, its not Islamic, takpa bukan cara Islam. Dalam komen saya bertanya pada child expert boleh ka budak2 berdalih semacam itu sekali. Sekarang saya bersenam, berdiri atas kepala, buat renggangan dari sebelah kaki, lompat dengan tangan saja, anak saya tengok dan meniru sekejap buat jatuh2, terlintas dalam hati apa yang anak saya fikirkan tentang saya pula.

fix, fast, form
salam sayang,
babY

Greetings to my dearest friends,

If  I am not here, usually I will be in Facebook, I follow child expert coach page- in loving way to handle kids.

In the status recently, it says " If the kid afraid of water,  not because he is not confident but because he is still doing analyst about the circumstances and observed to get involved"

It reminds me when I was little around 6 years old, my mom danced cha cha, I have no confidents to even try the steps, maybe I feel shy at the same time but crossed in my mind " its ok its not Islamic. So in my comment to ask if the child expert knows that is it ok to feel sour grapes and give reason to console oneself. Now I love doing physical practice, stand on my head, stretching with one leg, jump on hands. My kids saw and imitate doing the same, but drop himself purposely, in my heart wonders what my kid thinks of me this time.

baiki,boleh,baik
with love,
babY

Foto : dream of safari

Mahu punyai Anak/ Want to hv children

English version below-

Menatap foto ni mengingatkan saya pada suatu ketika dulu inginkan anak. Sekarang dah beranak-pinak, sangat bersyukur dengan kehadiran mereka.

Saya benar2 berdoa kpdNya berikan saya anak, saya sebut hanya Allah tempat saya meminta hanya Tuhan yang boleh beri apa yang saya minta. *dalam sujud*

Sedihnya saya hampir terlupa utk amalkan kerana terlalu sibuk sekarang

Amalan itu ialah tegur baby2 dan budak2 yang saya terserempak, tak akan terlepas pandang, hargai mereka, memberi pujian dengan senyuman pada mereka. Dalam hati meminta mereka doakan untuk saya. Sebenarnya saya memang meminta tolong dari anak yatim untuk mendoakan saya.

Harus, hargai, hasrat

Salam sayang,
babY

Looking at the photo below reminds me of how i wanted children so much that i own now.

I really pray to Allah that I want kids and only Him can give only Him I ask from. (In prostration)

But sadly i almost forgot to practice that i show interests in all babies n kids iv come acrossed, never missed a glance. Appreciate them, adore them with kind words in my heart i wanted them to pray for me. Infact, i even asked an orphan to pray for me.

Want,wish,wonders
With love,
babY

Photo : gift of love