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English version and less than one minute video below :)
When having breakfast separately / Bila bersarapan asing-asing
When will lunch be prepared, breakfast enjoyed by one after another. / tiada ruang nak mula memasak untuk makan tengahari bila sarapan bergilir-gilir
This morning, I've made a decision not to say anything to kids as long as it's not harmful or dangerous. The worst case scenario that I saw she used metal tongs to tweak & pull out the pancake in the toaster. I told her many times to switch off at the plug or use plastic tongs instead.
Actually its not a big deal as the the toaster not pressed on. It was off, yet back of the mind I worried the tong is wet. But grateful everything is fine n
My aim to make adik a morning person. Actually we didn't have breakfast together for awhile. Abang had breakie alone after dusk, then get ready to school online at 7:30am. Later, me and my dear hubby had breakfast and adik didn't come in yet.
While I was sitting, that's when I was looking at adik and saw how adik would think and did her breakfast. Sometime bread with marshmallows, the small marshmallows left a bit for drinks. She took it on her bread. No wonder she is quiet when having her food, because she didn't want us to comment on something, I think.
I'm not sure how to 'parent' kids, is this right sentence hehe but how my mom did was simple; She would left breakfast stuff under the food cover, and wrote a love note. It's lovely too.
I used to write in abang dan adik's lunch box, but abang said he ate the fruits in the car and the note he had read and keep. Maybe he felt embarrassed if his friends saw it.
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| Adik heated up chilled pancake in the toaster |
That's the journey of that particular kid of today :)
Happy monday❤️ again.. Time flies so fast, may have blessings in each day.
Pagi ni saya buat keputusan tak nak tegur apa-apa, hanya nak duduk dan lihat saja. Selagi semua baik saja dan tidak merbahayakan diri, biarkan ajalah.
Senario yang paling ketara pun yang nampak, adik guna tong besi untuk kepit dan keluarkan penkek tu dari pembakar roti, kalau boleh nak juga cakap ambil pengepit plastik. Memang risau dengan elektrik, berlogam atau basah walaupun pembakar roti tidak ditekan pasang hehe. Alhamdulillah semuanya ok.
Matlamatnya nak adik bangun pagi dan terus bersarapan, tidak tidur balik.
Saya dah abis sarapan, Itu yang dapat duduk dan lihat, bila adik masuk perhati apa yang adik lakukan.
Sebenarnya dah lama tak bersarapan sekali pun, abang bersarapan sendiri selepas subuh, dan terus ke sekolah atas talian pukul 7:30am. Saya dan suami bersarapan selepas itu. Dan adik yang terakhirlah.
Kadang-kadang dia letak marshmallow atas roti, Marshmallow tu memang dah sikit untuk minuman panas. Dia letak atas roti. Senyap ja makan seorang diri. Sebab tu diam sayang, tak nak la mama komen apa-apa kut.
Tak pasti la saya nak mendidik anak-anak, macam ibu saya letak makanan bawah tudung dan letak nota cinta yng ditulis ditepi, ibu pegi kerja dan ingatkan saya makan sarapan. Sweetkan. Saya pernah buat dalam lunch box abang adik. Abang kata dia makan buah dalam kereta dan mesej tu dah baca dan simpan. Sebab segan makan buah disekolah berkertas mesej lagi.
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| Adik panaskan penkeknya di dalam pembakar roti |
Itulah perjalanan hidup seorang kanak-kanak zaman sekarang dari rumah ini lah :)
Salam Isnin ❤️ cepatnya masa berlalu, moga ada keberkatan dalam setiap hari.
PS : Adik approved the blog and video.